My husband touched me in my sleep...

[missbecks90]

So I've been married 5 years together for 8 years, we have children together and for the most part things have been good. Recently I've woken up to him sexually touching me when I'm asleep, I've confronted him about it and he swears blind he has no idea he's doing it. Problem is I pretended to be asleep a few weeks back to see if he really was or not, I moved slightly like I was stirring and he stopped. Once I acted like I was asleep again he started touching me again...I feel violated & dirty but I feel like I'm blowing it out of proportion to? I feel guilt because I've not wanted to have sex with him in a long time and I feel like it's my fault. Anyone else been through this?

this is a two year old zombie thread

Not sure if you’ll see this OP but after reading your post I wondered how things are now? x

This is a zombie thread, but I had to say @Privacypolicyact , what you're saying is disgusting. People often don't go to the police for various reasons, doesn't mean a sexualassault, rape etc isn't real or serious.

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And just wanted to add, you’re disgusting. Stop minimising abuse.

Back story - we’ve been together for 14 years and have two children. My boyf has touched me before when I’ve been sleeping (inside vagina, groping boobs etc) and I’ve woken up to it (this has happened twice) and both times he denied it and said he was sleeping. I asked him to phone the doctor for help but he never did. Last night he tried to touch me sexually and three times I said no as on my period. He said just go with it and carried on to which I had to physically move his hands and asked him what he was doing when I asked him to stop. He’s claiming that he thought I wanted it and that’s the only reason he carried on. I don’t know what to do. I feel violated. Would hate to think my daughter was ever in this position. Any words of advice?