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Virtual Porn

117 replies

Ilovemybabym · 29/04/2020 15:39

So today I wanted to start my Spanish lessons that my friend put on a USB stick for me. I put the stick in my laptop to find that all my lessons had been deleted and had been replaced by my partners virtual porn session! This video shows him sleeping with another woman! When I confronted him about it his excuse was "it doesn't mean anything I was bored" wft bored! So I'm my head this is him being tempted to cheat or even worst it is cheating! Now I'm in two minds in what to do.... We have a 20 month old son & I've always said I don't want to bring him up from a split family but I also do not think it's acceptable to put up with this behaviour!

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mamato3lads · 29/04/2020 15:41

Was it interactive? Was the "woman" just a simulation or was it a real woman involved online ?

DioneTheDiabolist · 29/04/2020 15:42

He deleted your work for his porn?Shock

ByGrabtharsHammerWhatASavings · 29/04/2020 15:44

What Dione said!!

corlan · 29/04/2020 15:49

Would he mind if you did it?

Crimejunkie · 29/04/2020 15:51

Fucking hell. I'd leave

Ilovemybabym · 29/04/2020 16:20

I don't know she looked pretty real to me tho!

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GilbertMarkham · 29/04/2020 16:27

Virtual porn session? I'm not getting this at all.

CuppaZa · 29/04/2020 16:34

Huh? What do you mean virtual porn? Was it a video of him and another woman? Did he tell you it’s virtual? You said she looks real? When was this video taken?

Ilovemybabym · 29/04/2020 16:40

So virtual porn is on a playstation or Xbox using a virtual headset. You can play with other people but I don't know if she was real or fake but the fact that he recorded it on a usb is abit suspicious!

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WhatWouldYouDoWhatWouldJesusDo · 29/04/2020 16:43

Sorry but that's hilarious. Bloody hell 😂😂😂

Id be annoyed at him deleting my work but could see the funny side I confess.

Opentooffers · 29/04/2020 16:45

If it looks real, sorry to say, it probably was real. To create something that you can't tell the difference with would,I imagine, require a lot of tech and CGI capability and take a fair amount of time and money. What was your first thought when you saw it? Did you think it was virtual, or had he just claimed that since? Does it look recent also?
I suspect it's worse than virtual and you've got a full on cheater who videos it then rewatches as he likes - yuk!

Adelais · 29/04/2020 16:47

Sorry if I’m not getting it but do you mean the video was of him and another woman? How is it virtual?

chunkyrun · 29/04/2020 16:48

Camming?

GilbertMarkham · 29/04/2020 16:53

Is it only of her?

A woman performing sex acts?

Or is he in it in some way?

edwinbear · 29/04/2020 16:59

Is this his PlayStation avatar and another avatar or him in ‘real life’?

ItStartedWithAKiss241 · 29/04/2020 16:59

We’re these like cartoon people? Like an avatar of yourself? X

Forumqueen · 29/04/2020 17:00

Like the episode on black mirror! 😂

mamato3lads · 29/04/2020 17:01

This is a new one on me, for sure

lmnoh · 29/04/2020 17:02

I think this lockdown is really starting to get to people 🙄

Fedupandpoor · 29/04/2020 17:04

@Forumqueen I thought of that too! I had no idea this was a thing, unless op's DP has come up with the most creative excuse ever after getting caught cheating.

Ilovemybabym · 29/04/2020 17:07

she was definitely real not an avatar

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edwinbear · 29/04/2020 17:10

So he’s videoed himself and another woman having sex, saved it over the top of your lessons and is now trying to convince you it’s virtual and didn’t happen in real life. Is that what’s happening? Does he think you will fall for that?

Chiyo666 · 29/04/2020 17:10

It’s basically a real woman who has been recorded, usually in doggy position or missionary. The customer then wears a headset and it’s like a point of view. No contact is involved. The customer stands and masterbates while the vr simulates that he’s having sexual with the porn star. I studied it when I did robotics.

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 29/04/2020 17:12

Op do you mean POV porn where if he's wearing a VR headset he can eg look down and it will look like he's actually having sex with her rather than actively seeing the man involved?

Grim.

Chiyo666 · 29/04/2020 17:13

I would attach a screenshot of what I mean but it probably wouldn’t be appropriate Grin

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