Virtual Porn

[Ilovemybabym]

So today I wanted to start my Spanish lessons that my friend put on a USB stick for me. I put the stick in my laptop to find that all my lessons had been deleted and had been replaced by my partners virtual porn session! This video shows him sleeping with another woman! When I confronted him about it his excuse was "it doesn't mean anything I was bored" wft bored! So I'm my head this is him being tempted to cheat or even worst it is cheating! Now I'm in two minds in what to do.... We have a 20 month old son & I've always said I don't want to bring him up from a split family but I also do not think it's acceptable to put up with this behaviour!

I’m fine with porn and fine with masturbation but I would NOT be fine with this. Step too far.

I would make sure he understood it’s a hard line with me and he’s not to do again. If he can’t agree to that, I’d have to leave.

Christ if it’s real time, not only is he stood up, trousers round his ankles, headset on, waving his todger around, he’s also rambling on through the mic telling her what to do? Like my 10 year old yelling at his mates when he’s playing Fortnite?

I couldn’t have real grown up sex with a man who got off on that. The mental image would put me off for life.

Ewwwwwww like on Red Dwarf where Lister wears out the groin attachment in Gunmen of the Apocalypse even though it has a life time guarantee.

Grim. Grimmer than grim.

I think I'd lose quite a large proportion of any respect I had for my partner if they did this.

How unlike the home life of our own dear queen!

Seriously though op, this would be marriage over for me. Couldn't fancy or respect someone who did this.

I'm still unsure on how this all works ?
Im off to have a look on pornhub as someone is bound to have sent a video in 😬
I wouldn't be happy about it though, esp recording over your homework xx

Something like this - reaching out for tits/arse that isn’t actually there 🤣🤣. Nope, definitely couldn’t shag a man who behaved like this.

I had to google this, so it’s basically a real video but it looks like your the one getting your end away and you can look around the room etc like the VR roller coaster games, you don’t even need a headset. Why am I not surprised someone’s turned it into porn

Just when you think you've heard it all....

OP I would be gutted by this it just feels so sordid. Like a PP the more you read here the more it puts you off men, what the hell is going on with some of them

Eh?

Who knew this was a thing!

I had a go on a VR rollercoaster game once, I staggered round the room like I’d downed a bottle of wine then promptly fell over and felt a bit sick.

Well I bloody never 😱 didn't even know this was a thing. Grim. As. Fuck.

This is such a pathetic thing to do. I could never shag a man who I knew had done that.

And men probably do look pathetic wanking away........but let's face it. Women sticking fake penises and tongues up themselves look pretty stupid as well.

There are far more ridiculous, sex toys for women then men. I just find the thought of a bloke incorporating it into his PS4 hilarious. 😂😂😂

Jeeez, i never get why so many people either are okay with porn, or claim to be... firstly pornhub have no morals whatsoever. They use exploitative vids of (potentially trafficked) women and have even been found the have vids of actual children being abused on their site. They claim that they check the site but it is in their interest to get as many sick f as possible watching. The majority of porn is produced by men. Women in the industry are often assaulted physically and sexually when they don't do what the producers want. Also it glamourises women as subordinate and even unwilling during sex, shows sex without lube and that penetration = orgasm. So much so, some women and men believe this is what women want, perpetuating rape fantasies etc. OP no one can tell you how to feel. If you're not cool with it, then that's absolutely acceptable. No amount of "its just porn" is going to change that.

Fucking hell

How would a video of a virtual porn session include images of OPs DH actually having sex with a woman?

I mean if that's what the video shows it's real.

And it's not virtual porn it's virtual paying for sex. If that is indeed what it is.

I would not be ok with that.

Are you sure it's a virtual game and not a real video

The porn part doesn't bother me, the fact he deleted all your Spanish lessons would bother me

THIS!

I wouldn't like it one bit op. I don't really know what to say.

Yes the woman wouldn’t be in it if it was virtual.

I’m confused

Of course the woman would be in it, the OP’s husband is the one who wouldn’t be in it if it was virtual. I’m sure the OP is smart enough to figure it out.

I am also confused.

In the interests of science (!) I googled virtual porn... Its literally just porn except its from a point of view angle so when you have the headset on and look down, it incredibly vaguely if you really stretch your imagation very very far looks like the woman in the video is giving you a blow job.

Except she isn't bevause it's just a video with clever camera angles or something.

So I have no idea what the OP is talking about that her husband is in the video....

For me, I would prefer DP didn't watch porn but what he does in his own time is up to him so this wouldn't bother me that much but I would think significantly less of him if I walked in on him furiously wanking with his VR headset and headphones on......