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Virtual Porn

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Ilovemybabym · 29/04/2020 15:39

So today I wanted to start my Spanish lessons that my friend put on a USB stick for me. I put the stick in my laptop to find that all my lessons had been deleted and had been replaced by my partners virtual porn session! This video shows him sleeping with another woman! When I confronted him about it his excuse was "it doesn't mean anything I was bored" wft bored! So I'm my head this is him being tempted to cheat or even worst it is cheating! Now I'm in two minds in what to do.... We have a 20 month old son & I've always said I don't want to bring him up from a split family but I also do not think it's acceptable to put up with this behaviour!

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sociallydistained · 29/04/2020 23:34

Men are bloody awful. I just can't 🙈

famousforwrongreason · 29/04/2020 23:44

Hahahahaha *lmnoh

@edwinbear I interrupted my listening of the archers for that little video .... hilarious 😂*

Thanks for reminding me, I’ve missed the last two omnibuses/ omnibii

famousforwrongreason · 29/04/2020 23:46

What does pov stand for? My google won’t let me search it Confused

JemimaPuddleCat · 29/04/2020 23:51

@DianaT1969

Can I use it to eat a lot of virtual cream cake when I'm on a diet? And it will feel like I ate it?

Only if you masturbate at the same time Wink

JemimaPuddleCat · 29/04/2020 23:51

@famousforwrongreason

Point of view

Chiyo666 · 29/04/2020 23:51

Point of view

famousforwrongreason · 29/04/2020 23:54

Ah thanks guys. I was thinking it was mumsnet acronym for ‘penis out of vagina’ as have seen piv used as a term for intercourse before!

lmnoh · 29/04/2020 23:58

@famousforwrongreason
I was wondering about POV as well - thought it must have had a much more filthy meaning 😂

Scott72 · 30/04/2020 04:08

So you see a point of view from a camera the actor is wearing in his glasses or on his head. OP didn't actually see her husband in the video, just the hands and appendage of this actor. This doesn't seem any worse than "regular" porn and sounds a bit boring.

JammieSplodger · 30/04/2020 10:24

I think this is degrading to AI women. How do we know they haven't been trafficked in the virtual world?

BeetrootRocks · 30/04/2020 10:53

The woman being filmed is real.

Putting the word virtual in front of it seems to give a distance away from her as a human being which is worrisome.

pocketem · 30/04/2020 13:06

I think this is degrading to AI women. How do we know they haven't been trafficked
How do you know the person cleaning you toilets at work hasn't been trafficked?

BeetrootRocks · 30/04/2020 13:11

The person making that point was joking that an AI woman isn't real so can't be trafficked.

You have spectacularly missed the point !

I would also note that being forced to clean toilets is still not the same as being raped.

BeetrootRocks · 30/04/2020 13:14

Or bring forced to perform simulating sex, have that video on the internet, sold for profit, for multiple men to masturbate over.

These 'arguments' are just shit.

pocketem · 30/04/2020 13:25

still not the same as being raped.
They take their clothes off and jiggle about in a virtual room. Most VR porn is done by women in their own bedrooms. No man or raping involved

BeetrootRocks · 30/04/2020 13:42

?

This utter disregard of the plight of women who are not doing 'sex work' consensually is appalling.

The motivations of the people who turn a blind eye are obvious.

JammieSplodger · 30/04/2020 14:35

The comment was tongue in cheek. The VR porn game I know of is nothing to do with real women. It's called Pornstar Island, haven't tried it though. Very weird, I agree Grin

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