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Husband has gone to another house

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smileandsing · 01/04/2020 08:15

I heard my DH leave very early this morning and get in a taxi. I messaged him and he said he was going to a friend's house and admitted he had been drinking (a whole other thread). I told him to come back right away as he was risking our health by doing this. Initially he said he was but it's been over 2 hours and he's not home.
I am really worried as he has breached the 'rules' and put several people's health at potential risk, particularly as I have a compromised immune system and we have a young child.
I think calling the Police may only serve to inflame the situation and in him getting a fine, which doesn't solve the health worries. Pretty sure the friend won't allow him to stay there indefinitely.
Any practical suggestions on what to do?

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Embracelife · 06/04/2020 15:41

OP you are not a victim you are a heroine taking control of your and dc lives.
This is your story you are writing. Make it your version. Not his. You cannot save him. Well done for calling police now take next steps.

Embracelife · 06/04/2020 15:42

And if his mh is bad you can refuse to have him in your house .

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