Fallen in love with a married man

[Sosounhappy]

It was meant to be just sex but after 10 months i love him

What a catch. A man who cheats on his wife will surely cheat on you, too.

Oh shut up.

Dump, block on all things and change your routes.

He isn't going to leave his wife and if he does he will leave a vacancy for a mistress.

Turn on your TV and watch the news to see the prime example of this..

Well done!

I know it is just sex for him. I am not first

Ah well, more fool you then eh.

Nice

So nobody else on here has ever had an affair. I am single by the way

Not sure what you want us to say - it seems like you've been a bit thick

Well I suppose you will be feeling miserable and used, a bit like his wife.

He says his wife does not know and is happy in a sexless marriage

Don’t be fooled, married men love the comforts of a home , but when caught out run back to their wives . It’s a sad but harsh truth . We are all hurt in these situations the wife , the ow and kids.

My husband is still with me and he could have left or I could still choose to leave him . We are still working through our difficulties , so it’s early days yet .

I understand that you think it’s more that that but you are only filling in a gap which is temporary. It’s hard for me to say this to the ow but find someone who is totally committed to you and not just part time . There are no winners here

Ask yourself the question why hasn’t he left his wife ?

No good (for you) can come of this. The man is slime. Date someone better.

They all say it's sexless.

What are you looking for people to say? Poor you?

I’m curious- how does something like that start? Do you set out the rules at the off? Have you told him you love him? I imagine he’ll panic. Does he ever mention his wife; appear to feel bad about what he’s doing?

Oh ffs

Thank for your post Brain. I really hope you can be happy in the future

What exactly do you love about a lying cheat?

No haven't told him I love him. He is staying much longer than he used to and messages every day

Do you not wonder how what you are doing may affect his wife? Children (if he has them)?