Fallen in love with a married man

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It was meant to be just sex but after 10 months i love him

Yes I feel very guilty. I hope she never finds out

They all say its sexless. They are not happy with the wife anymore etc etc. So why is he still with her? He doesn't love you. He wont leave his wife for you. And you are selfish and have no morals. I hope he doesnt have kids.

It’s good when karma kicks in 🙌🏻

Bite the bullet and cut all contact. That's all I can suggest. Don't waste your life dripping around after him.

I agree with others, cut contact and try and move on. Although it will hurt it will probably save a lot more hurt in the long run for everyone x

If you felt that guilty you'd stop!

Of course, I'm sure she's v happy in her sexless marriage...

Sexless is her choice

Are you expecting sympathy ?

FFS. Get some self respect, block him and move on!

Sexless is her choice

Have you spoken to her about it...?

What do you want?

So if it's sexless at her choice is okay for the two of you to treat her like shit rather than him just ending things with her?

So his wife knows about his relationship with you?

Do her a favour and tell her, so she can make informed decisions about her life.

She could also tell you about her “sexless” by “her choice” marriage, and any DC they have.

She won't be happy in a sexless marriage, believe me. Not that I believe he has told you the truth about that.

He is lying to his wife, cheating on her, he doesn't have any regard for his marriage vows and the commitment he made, and he is using you for sex. What do you love about him? Why do you believe that is all you deserve?

Dump him and block him, you deserve so much better.

Ha. Of course sexless is her choice...

I'm not sure what you want from this thread.

No one will sympathise.

He won't fall in love with you or leave his wife.

So you can end it or he will eventually.

Let me guess? His wife doesn’t understand him. They have more of a friend or brother : sister relationship.

What exactly did you want out of this thread? On a website used primarily by mums. Some of whom have had their lives devastated by their husband / partners and the other women who were only in it for the sex.

Are you looking for sympathy? Advice?

Lol

Advice and strength to cut contact I have tried

I'm wondering whether this is a wind up as normally there is a lot of background but the original post and response have been very brief.

I honestly don't know how you can do this to another human being! It's incredibly selfish and cruel. A lot of people are quick to blame the man when this happens but you know and knew he's married and continued to see him? I hope karma comes back and bites you in the arse. I hope one day you feel that heart break, that world shattering moment that this poor women will when she does find out, because she will find out eventually. And don't worry if he does leave her to be with you, you will never be happy or trust him 100% if he can do it to his WIFE, a person he chose to spend his life with, he's certainly going to do it with the fling on the side 🙃

He says it helps him stay married