Gossip might be clouding me

[Pollypocket89]

My DH was the subject of gossip a little while back at work. Him and a woman there accused of having an affair. It's not true but I don't think he's helping himself by still having a relationship with her bar civility. He's above her and doesn't need to interact with her but he'll still drop her name into conversation etc

To me and the RL friend I've discussed it with, out of respect for me and himself he wouldn't have anything to do with her. He doesn't see the issue but it's making me wo der if he doesn't see it because he doesn't want to

It's clear he will do exactly what he wants, regardless of OP's feelings, office gossip or people 'having a word'.

The office woman is priority over his marriage, reputation and his job.

That's why I'm so stuck, Bluntness. That's exactly how I feel... But part of me also hates it
But it isn't exactly how you feel or you wouldn't have posted! Just realised this started in February. Not much anyone can say to help now if after all this time you're still in same position. You've clearly decided you are accepting his decisions and its absolutely your choice to do so.

Will they be back in the office soon Polly? Hope no news is good news.