Thanks all. I wanted to see if my main niggle came up. I'm not sure what to do about it, but I think if it was a friend or someone on here I'd tell them to get rid.
Thinking about a few short relationships in the past, that they were 'the one that got away' and wondering if I could have ignored stuff and put things down to slight niggles, I'm concerned I could be doung the same here.
Been separated for 7 / 8 years and once the novelty of a new man wore off I got bored and went back to my happy single life claiming that I can't do relationships!
Anyway. Back to he current one. Been a few niggles, one of which, I pulled him up on and he totally acknowledged and stopped doing so.
He brought it up himself at the start that he was immature, ( through no prompting or problems). I love his sensible side very much, and he's 48. But he thinks, shows and talks about his penis all the time. All our visits have to involve his penis in some way. We go to places together, it's not just visits to mine and his.
On the other hand he's very thoughful and I'm very attracted to him and do have feelings for him. I would miss him if it ended, but also don't want to just settle.
Am I being picky?