Man niggles.

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What niggles would make you end a new relationship?

@Sunsetandmoonlight do you think?!

Well done OP. Silly man. He can fiddle with it all he likes now! Just so bizarre, and disrespectful and selfish!!

Thank you! This man claimed he didn't masterbate as well! 😂

I bet he masturbated all day frigging long!

He’s just weird. You dodged a bullet OP! Imagine what he’d be like as an old man getting it out all the time! 🤢

I agree to both!
Also when I was ill, he said all he right things and then that he was thinking naughty thoughts about me! Tosser.

Urgh, it gets worse. What a knob (lol) literally.

He seems obsessed. He's not 18! That would concern me

He also sounds like he would be crap in bed, I think men that are obsessed with their own bits always are, although I could be wrong and perhaps you had the most mind blowing orgasms every time

Mine wasn't crap in bed...but he was a bit robotic. Like he knew all the things he was supposed to do but as though he had a mental checklist to tick off.

And he'd learned his entire repertoire from porn movies, so.... (he also said he didn't masturbate whilst we were in a relationship, because he saw it as 'cheating'...)

He was really good in bed! Had another long message this morning....woe is me etc. I might post if anyone's interested!

He sounds like a little kid OP! you've dealt with him really well. Don't fall for the pity me texts, he's being pathetic, and yes i'm interested to see !

I’m interested to see too.

"I didn't think of any boundaries between us"

Eejit. Explains a lot, though.

Text him one more:

Stop! I do not want to know!

The block him

He's basically hugely misunderstanding the meaning of 'boundaries', isn't he? He thinks it means things that are coming between you, not lines that he's crossed.

I ended my last 2 relationships because of the 'ick factor' as they both smoked a lot and had yellow fingers.
I smoke, but not a lot and I have never had yellow fingers. It's just gross.

One was also clingy - big turn off.
And a bit controlling. So I nipped in the bud fast!
No-one will every question if my friends take priority over them!
Of course they do you knob-head.

Well done on dumping.
Woe is me texts are another big turn off.
Yes, post it!

Yes he's got the boundaries thing mixed up but he shouldn't have as we've had discussions about boundaries before over the way he spoke about women!

I've completely ignored his text. Part of me was curious as to what shite he was going to come out with! One more text and I'll block him.

Ugh I've followed this from the start and I'm cringing for you. Well done for handling it so well! He's away with the fairies, just doesn't listen and dismisses everything you say! He also doesn't get that every text he sends makes this so much worse. As if you're gonna welcome him back with open arms after those messages??

He just really doesn't understand the issue, does he? He's still carrying on as though you've just spat the dummy out about something he's done (he hasn't a clue what), and his solution is that he just won't do that thing again (even though he doesn't know what it is). Something as persistent as all the 'willy stuff' is so ingrained in them that they don't see it as being something wrong!

Keep ignoring him. He just doesn't get it.

Ha ha, last time I did a list and he said he was so embarrassed and sorry. Maybe I should have done another one!

Aw I feel a bit sorry for him now!! I’d hate for my messages to be posted online, don’t really think it’s on

But then that’s why I end up staying friends with unworthy men as I’m too nice

OldTownRoad I think the messages just serve to show that he really hasn't taken on board anything that OP has said about the problems in the relationship. He seems to think that his obsession with his penis and all things sexual is perfectly normal or 'something he can learn not to do'. When she's repeatedly told him how horrible it is.

Just block him now, OP.