Man niggles.

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What niggles would make you end a new relationship?

I feel like he needs to know that was my main issue, but I don't really want any conversation with him to be honest. Maybe I need to just get it done. Need to think how to phrase it so it doesn't make me sound precious!

Lol @Pinkbonbon

Tbh you really don't owe him an explanation. He's a pervert. And he knows fine well what he has done wrong. You could just block him on everything and hopefully that will be that.

I am always a ‘say my piece’ to men type of women, I can’t help it and it would bug me otherwise.

*woman

Someone who's careless and clumsy and keeps breaking my things glares at DH

Thanks. I feel like it would give me satisfaction telling him why I'm done!

Well go for it and then let us know how it goes

Insult his dick for a giggle, tell him it’s not big enough to be whipped out spontaneously

Yeah fair enough, just don't let him try and convince you you are being a prude or some shit. Text him your piece and then just block the creep.

I imagine he’s just over sexed. Could do with some bromide in his tea!

He’s probably been watching too much porn where the guy just has to have a bulge in his trouser department and some burd is dragging his clothes off wherever they are.

Perhaps that’s why he’s always going on about it and things, in the hope you’ll jump him as the thought/mention/sight of it will obviously make you immediately horny like the burds on the porn films.

That would do my head in. I’d be wandering round with a pair of scissors snapping them open and shut randomly and see if it perturbs him lol!

I’d dump. Who wants a guy so horny they make you feel like a sex doll instead of a human being with thoughts and feelings that aren’t always about sex.

This would annoy me, and I'd like to think I'd dump the person.

Yes I think you should tell him for your own satisfaction- you might regret it if you don't. You can always then immediately block him so you don't have to get into a conversation.

Okay any sensible text ideas that will come across well to show it's his problem?

Tell him that it’s creepy and quite perverted and that you genuinely don’t know one woman who would be okay with this behaviour and that if he ever wants a genuine loving relationship with any woman then he should stop it. Will he care though, didn’t you say that his exwife didn’t like it?

I like that. And it was her idea to separate, he said he was glad in the end.

Need to think how to phrase it so it doesn't make me sound precious!

Why worry about sounding precious - He's nearly fifty yr old bloke who can't meet basic behavioural norms. He's hardly a good judge of behaviour or character.

Yes absolutely true!

Has he made it sound like his wife was precious for hating this?

I mean, he constantly talks about his cock and gets his cock out - a child with SN would probably stop if talked to about it (if they were even doing it in the first place) and yet he won't even though his ex talked to him about it (probably several times) and you've talked to him about it more than once .. and other exes probably did too.

And none of you should have to have in the first place anyway!

I would go for "I don't want to see you any more. It is over. You know why."

@Inappropriatefemale no not exactly. He was very open about it and he also said that he see's it as fun. At the start he said he hoped that I would like his daft side.

whipping his penis out whenever may be fun to young teenage boys when it’s all boys together iyswim but women loathe this shit and he needs telling this! He clearly knows SFA about women!

Why would someone name their penis Nigel?

Omfg he named it? and Nigel at that?

Who says he named his penis Nigel??

Simone!