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False promises

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heneverkeepshisword · 30/10/2019 22:42

So basically my bf has cheated on me in the past, promised me he was sorry blah blah, then I caught him messaging her again.

He begged and begged and pleaded for 5 months for me to give him another chance, she's blocked etc etc....

So I said okay I'll give him one more chance but he has to change his number...he said fine he will do anything it takes...

He goes to check when his phone is up for renewal and says it's only in a couple of weeks so he will change his number then.....
He then gets a new phone and contract without changing his number....so I tell him again that I will only give him another chance if he changes it...he then agree to do it last weekend but then something came up so he couldn't, promises that this weekend he will do it...

Had the conversation tonight and now he's saying it's pointless as she is blocked so he's not doing it!

I feel I should just walk away now as 3 times he promised and now has backed down.
Not the only thing he's backed down on....he promises me so much when he's trying to get me back and then as soon as I'm back it all goes out the window!

I don't know what to do?

OP posts:
BendyLikeBeckham · 29/11/2019 12:20

It is day 2 today. We will count with you.

Well done for blocking and not contacting him for 2 days. Just keep moving forwards.

You need to visualise a place where when you hear evidence that he is the twat you know him to be, that your only reaction is to roll your eyes and feel grateful that you aren't part of his web of lies, deceit and manipulation any more.

You are not The One. You are merely one of many for him. One day you will be someone's whole world and they will love you for you. This guy is only capable of loving himself. Don't be a sucker for his shit anymore.

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Gemma1971 · 29/11/2019 13:01

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