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Today I am going to be told about his new woman

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MedusaMomma · 03/10/2019 09:49

I feel so desperately sad right now. I had been with my current partner for 15 years. We were happy, he was a good man. We didn't really argue majorly and he told me he loved me everyday. He recently turned 40 and he changed. We have a son together and i recently had a termination that i regret because he flipped out when he found out I was pregnant and left me that day. He never went out because he was such a family man and he spent all his time with us. Since he left our son who is autistic has become with drawn. He wouldnt tell me where he was staying until last sunday when he told me he was sleeping on a female friend from works sofa... Yeahi know what your thinking. I desperately wanted for us to work on being there for our son and he came home for a few days then again he text me saying he wasn't coming home. He also blocked my calls. I just can't cope. I know there is something going on and yesterday i flipped and found a way to message him and i yold him he needed to be there for his son. He texted me this morning to say he needs to talk. I am still blocked. I can't cope anymore. I have no friends or family. I can't cope with the hurt and betrayal, caring for my son and the loss of the child i should havd kept. I feel so desperate and don't know what to do. I don't know how im going to cope when he calls to tell me he is with this woman. I just feel so bad

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MagnoliaJustice · 05/03/2020 20:12

Does anyone know if the OP actually got pregnant with her new man? It does seem a bit quick, to go from a long term relationship to a new one and within weeks, be trying to conceive.Rebound relationships seldom last the distance, unfortunately.

lborgia · 05/03/2020 20:50

@MagnoliaJustice - tbh, I stopped looking after my initial speed search. The whole thing blew my mind.

Iooselipssinkships · 05/03/2020 22:07

In September OP was pregnant with her now ex's child and had a termination because she didn't want another child.

In October she found out her ex was shagging another woman and was completely distraught for her autistic son who terribly missed his Dad. Posts and posts of being heartbroken, and given lots of advice by other posters.

In November she's ttc with a new partner and is madly in love and shagging all the time. No mention of son who she previously mentioned in every post in every other thread.

I'm only pointing this out so other posters don't become too emotionally invested because through all the different threads nothing really does add up unfortunately. Or it could all be completely true and the situation is totally batshit.

JonesyK · 06/03/2020 19:52

How do you search for other posts in the app?
How fo you highlight and reply to a post! Shock

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