Well my DH is certainly one of the good ones (and I've met plenty of bad ones so know how to differentiate),
Doesn't use or like porn, finds it demeaning to women and harmful to men and relationships.
Isn't a blokey bloke, hates the male group-mentality and all that entails, he works in a very male-dominated environment and often pulls colleagues up on misogynistic view and behaviour, on a couple of occasions he's been on work trips and the group he's with have tried to get him to go to a strip club, he always declines, (and rings me for a chat on the way back to the hotel).
Solvent, hard-working high-earner, has no interest in controlling anything to do with money, all decisions are joint and we both have equal access to all family money.
Intelligent, funny, great company.
Happy for me to peruse whatever I want to.
Engaged as a father, always did 50:50 with the children from birth.
Gets on with stuff around the house, cleaned all the kitchen cupboards out yesterday because he saw it needed doing.
Completely respectful around sex, understands boundaries, an excellent lover to boot!
Doesn't oggle women, would never be unfaithful, he's extremely commited to our partnership.
I don't know what his mum would have been like as a MIL, unfortunately she died when he was 14, but his grandmother who took him in (absent, feckless father), was warm, welcoming, wonderful and fierce!
He's also super-sexy and handsome!
I often praise the fates that I went to the pub by myself when I was pissed off and low 15 years ago.
My first-ever boyfriend was also an absolutely lovely guy, we're still friends, I was just far too young to settle down.
Don't give up hope if you want a man in your life, there are some bloody good ones. I'm sure DH, though unusual, is not entirely singular.
And don't settle for a dick-head!