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Old nude pics to himself !?

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:18

Hi there, first post ever and a confusing one!

In a nutshell married to hubby for 2 years, together 7 years, 2 children. Never any reason to distrust him and have what I consider to be a happy life together!

He gave me his phone yesterday to look back through his emails, searching for one that I sent him sent last year about a holiday.....

While searching around the dates, I noted 4 emails over the course of 2 days, sent FROM him via his other email account to himself on his current email account. The emails contained attachments with photos of his penis to be blunt. Very old photos from 8 or so yrs ago judging by the body! Before he met me take in old apartment. He now has a dad bod!

Emails were not forwarded to any body at all. Just from himself to himself.

Shocked, I asked him about it. He genuinely said he has no idea why the pics are there. He said he has not sent them to himself at all via his old account. He said only thing he can think of is his email has been hacked or mentioned maybe his old sd card has been hacked in his current phone!?!
Please domt laugh, I don't want to sound gullible. I'm not tech savvy at all so.... is this even possible?

He then really wanted to show me his phone, Facebook account etc as he was bewildered why this has happened and didn't want me to think the worst...and yet a little bit of me is to reiterate the emails were from 12 months ago. Never had any thoughts about him playing away etc then or now.

what do you think? Is it plausible?

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category12 · 27/08/2019 21:32

I send photos (not nudes Grin) between my email accounts because I tend to be logged in using one on some devices and can't be arsed to log out and log in again to access the other email.

glittertissues · 27/08/2019 21:33

I’m another one thinking that it COULD be that he found the photos and forwarded them onto himself either for nostalgic reasons of when he was fit, or maybe looking at photos of his younger body and penis is some sort of turn on? I’ve heard weirder things! Grin

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:34

God thank you all for replying to me I didn't think anyone woudl bother! And it's too embarrassing at the moment to ask anyone more tech savvy about! Thank you

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LaBelleSauvage · 27/08/2019 21:34

My email was hacked once (over a decade ago) and the hacker sent a naked photo (that my boyfriend had taken and sent to my email for me to keep) to 3 of my contacts. I was so upset at the time.

I deleted the email account (hotmail) and switched to Gmail, making new and very secure passwords.

No one had access to that account or to my laptop (my boyfriend was away working abroad at the time)

It could be true. Don't write him off straight away if he is open with his email/social media/phone

littlepeaegg · 27/08/2019 21:35

Yes perhaps he just likes the photos?

I mean, you say they are of his penis. Is he doing some sort of sexy pose?! Is he erect?

If he's just stood in front of a mirror, maybe it is for nostalgic reasons? But if they were sexy photos I'd guess they were to send them to someone?

toadabode · 27/08/2019 21:35

Probably to upload to a dating type site

Funghi · 27/08/2019 21:36

I have an old Hotmail email address that I don’t use so it’s not linked to my phone. I have gmail linked to my phone. A few years back I forwarded an email from Hotmail to gmail that included photos of our house when we first moved in.

The point of it was so that I could then save them to my phone/access them regularly.

bigchris · 27/08/2019 21:37

Were they just of his penis ?

He could have downloaded kik and sent them to women and deleted kik and then let you check his phone

It's a secret messaging app used by cheaters

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:37

It's really difficult as never any worries and now this. And hes just not having any of it do I dont know where to go really! He had demand not iPhone as someone asked. Unfortunately sorry to be gross but the pics were only of his wong not body as such! He sent me a few nudes when we met but not these ones x

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:38

Sorry my spelling I meant he has a Samsung

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:38

I checked old emails. Nothing

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isntshelovely11 · 27/08/2019 21:39

My thought is that maybe he sees these dick pics of himself as good dick pics (maybe it's the best sick pics he's taken of himself) and he wanted to keep them to look back on from when he had a nicer body and what not but didn't want to save them to his phone or anything incase someone came across them so sent them to his email account so that only he could have access to them..

isntshelovely11 · 27/08/2019 21:40

*dick pics

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:40

Tricky as I feel I have nothing to go on now. No more 'evidence'. Him in bits about it. Urgh

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FrameyMcFrame · 27/08/2019 21:41

At least they are pics of himself.

But currently he is lying as this could not have occurred due to 'hacking' etc

isntshelovely11 · 27/08/2019 21:43

Also the reason my first thought was this is because (and I hate to admit it) but I actually did this once.. obviously not dick pics because I'm a woman but I did once take a good (for me) nude photo. Would never sent it to anyone because I just never would but I sent them to another one of my email accounts because I wanted to keep them but not save them to my phone.. I feel so embarrassed writing that out but whatever. I think that's what he was doing too

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:43

That's true. The hacking bit is a worry then. I actually believed it :-( I need to do a feckjng IT course

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heylyla · 27/08/2019 21:44

Have you looked through his deleted mails?

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:45

Thank you everyone for replying so do I have another conco now? What on earth can I say or do?! He goes to work, comes home, goes work again. Not that affairs cant happen at work. Or like some of you say online maybe. Urgh

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:46

Also thanks those who have offered an alternative explanation. Its tricky

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Doormat247 · 27/08/2019 21:46

As someone else suggested, try checking which apps he's purchased in the past.
By accident I found apps on my exh tablet where he'd been uploading pics of his dick for people to comment on, along with comments such as 'need a local fuck buddy' etc.
These also were searchable on google with his username and he had to apply to google to have them removed 😂😂.
He'd even been wanking on webcam with strangers when I was working overtime to pay for him to sit on his arse doing nothing.

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:47

No deleted emails. I assumed emails delete themselves after a bit? Its empty

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:48

Doormat omg that's made me feel sick

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SomeAfternoonDelight · 27/08/2019 21:48

Personally for me, I’d probably want them for me. But men are partial to sending dick pics... so god knows. My boobs are my holy grail, his penis might be his? Maybe he wants to see how sagged his balls became?

We will never ever know OP! If there’s no reason not to trust him, then move on. If he has been up to anything, you won’t find out so..!

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Tinker2010 · 27/08/2019 21:48

How can I check previous apps on samsung?

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