Rejoining for my sins! (New username!), and will try to back read!
I was “seeing” someone for a few weeks and it was just lovely, we completely clicked and he pullled the plug last week. Saying I’m one of the only people who ever got him, I was sexy, clever, fun, and we liked each and have fun. But I want more than him at the moment (I don’t we hadn’t even had the conversation) and he felt bad being himself as if asked him to a couple of things, no pressure, he’d said no but felt bad saying it. 
Surely that’s not on me. Just not sure wether to last ditch text and ask him if he’s absolutely sure. Thing is I’m prideful so went straight to “forget it ok let’s be friends” mode to protect myself and I’m not sure if I should break that for once and just ask and take the hit! First time I’m so very sure this is his damage / fear and he’s wrong.
On other notes I’ve decided to multi date as a result which I have never done before, but keep focusing on one and getting burnt. How to you handle the dating/talking/flirting with more than one? I feel guilty!
But currently have Mr Nice who is so lovely, had one date but not sure if a fancy him 
want another date to make sure as he is lovely!
MrFootball, don’t know much about him, seems stable and kind, have a date next week.
Mr TFW (totally fucking wrong) Irish, hot, unbelievably sexual and still living with ex wife that makes me 
. Not arranged to meet as I’m wary of the living arrangements, but a great distraction.
Guess which my stupid brain wants???