Thinking of cheating on husband

[Isthischeating]

I’ve nc for this.
We have been married for 7 years and very much love each other with a active sex life but I feel like there’s something missing.
A few week ago I met a man who is also married and we have been chatting which has now turned to sexing and sending pictures that have both of us planning on getting a hotel together. I’ve never cheated on him but this other guy just seems special. It would just be a once off and dh would never find out. I don’t know what to do

You're not going to get a pat on the back for this.

Glad you've blocked him. I don't think you have considers the consequences fully.

Don't tell your husband. It will destroy your DH. I found out about my DH's crush/infatuation over 6 months ago now and even though nothing physical actually happened it's totally consuming me. I think about it every minute of every day.

Concentrate on improving your marriage.

Quite obviously you'll end up divorced. If you're thinking like this and go through with it there's only one sort of ending. Marriage isn't always easy or straightforward you have to try and sometimes drag yourself out of the doldrums. Marriage was a meant to collaborative, a partnership, you're a team. I have no respect for you

He's using you to destroy your DH.

So it's your DH's colleague? ☹️

Don't be too sure that by just blocking and deleting it's the end. If the OM's DW finds your exchange or nudes in the future, either on his phone or cloud, as a pp did, you might still lose your marriage. It's not like you're a stranger or hard to identify if they know your DH.

You do know he can now blackmail you ?

Or his wife could find them ( he probably has a “problem marriage “ as she is suspicious of him

And then she can send them to your husband

You HAVE to understand , the thrill does not match the years and depths and extent of pain caused . Even to you if this all unravels .

And for what ? A cheap thrill .

Get yourself a rabbit instead.

I would leave your husband first before sleeping with this man it is only fair to him.

He has no reason to blackmail me and we parted on good terms but glad we didn’t cheat , any pictures or messages were deleted as I know he won’t want his wife finding out

You DID fucking cheat. I'd leave my husband for what you did. I consider it cheating.

1 do do you have kids?
2 is his penis bigger?
3 what are both there jobs?
4 do you have a mortgage ?
5 how long have you been together?
6 what would your best friend say?
7 who would you hurt the most if you left? Answer them and maybe you might have some sort of answer.

but glad we didn’t cheat

Yes you did cheat.

How can sending nude pictures of yoyrself olus sexting be anything other than cheating? Dont marriage vows include "foresaking all others"?

Oh op really what the fuck?
Get a life.
Be with your husband or don't it's that bloody simple?
People like you piss me off. What gives you the right to go behind his back and hurt him like that.
Your husband deserves better, you're not thinking of cheating you are and have and have now earned the label of a cheat. I hope he catches you and leaves you.

Idiot.

Z

This man knows your DP?!
Let's hope he hasn't showed anyone anything that also knows your DP at work.

Bet he kept a photo for his wank bank. Let's hope his wife doesnt find it and tell everyone.

@Isthischeating I feel for you, believe it or not. I have a thread running you may want to read. I didn't stop myself. No one except me and OM know. Trust me, no one gets away with anything.

Better for you to be in this pain now than my kind of pain afterwards.

Take care.

Don't do it

It will end in one big fat mess

Ugh. How would you feel if your husband did this????? Mmm exactly!!!!!!!!