No invite for me ...should I be upset?

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I was introduced to a woman through a friend (I'm female ) we kissed.
Then she started inviting me to do things with them (the 4 of us including our mutual friend )
We started to sleep together.
Then we've been out on a few dates just me and her.
We text daily a lot.
Today she is going out with her friend (who is part of the group when we go out ) and she hasn't invited me.
I feel a bit sad but it's her friend she's going with and I'm kind of not her friend am I ?
It's a odd situation isn't it.
I don't know.

Hey MNHQ do you not have guidelines on how not to be a creepy stalker?

You're ignoring everyone with proper advice and just fuelling more drip feeding drama to the thread. It's boring and annoying. Starting to feel like your a troll.

If you've been so ill you couldn't get out of bed for close to a fortnight is expect the last thing you need right now is a day of drinking in the sun!

Which is probably another reason you weren't invited. On top of the fact that she can have friends that don't involve you.

You said you'd understand if it was a MF relationship but then state that the fact this is your first FF relationship makes no difference. Well I beg to differ

Oh fucking hell, I know who you are now.

Absolute waste of time trying to reason with you.

What are the pervious threads?
Any links?
I like to know the full story before i comment

@SoConfusedSo this is the one I was talking to the OP about above:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3626508-sharing-a-bed-with-someone-who-fancy-s-you-do-i-say-anything?pg=1&order=

Are these both the same OP?

Yes, it seemed familiar so I asked her earlier in this thread

But in this post they're both 28 and in the linked post the FWB is 40

I asked her if it were her and she said yes if you read the full thread. Other than that I don't know

sounds like youre getting to the stage where you might need to have a chat about if youre on the same page or not.

I think its fine for her to go out with her longstanding mates without her new girlfriend even if she has started to bring you along sometimes. She might have wanted to chat to them and get their opinion of you without you there. She may be giving a hint that shes not into you as much as she was to begin with?

I dont think shes done anything particularly wrong here, but if you guys are sleeping together, i dont think its inappropriate to have a chat about where its going

This all seems a bit - odd! It seems either untrue or very unhealthy!

OP, if this is true and the friend this weekend is the ex FWB from the other thread, then I would worry that you are over invested in this "half relationship". In your shoes, I would make myself less available. I'd have a long hard think about what I want/need from a relationship. You would benefit from doing some self reflection - maybe a counsellor? - to work out why you feel the way you do about this relationship and get a bit stronger personally.