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DH wants to move out and date me

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canadianflower · 25/05/2019 20:37

My husband has said he's not sure what he wants and says he wants to move out. We have a tiny house we have been trying to sell and he wants to move in here while he works out what he wants and "date" me. He also wants the kids there 50% of the time.

I feel it's unfair to disrupt everyone for a while but obviously appreciate this would be the new normal if we divorce. He's not saying he wants to divorce though, just that he needs space and wants to date me to revive the marriage.

What would you do?

OP posts:
Alfiemoon1 · 26/05/2019 14:02

I would just tell him to move out and forget the dating or he stays is fully committed to making it work and you have date nights as a married couple

housewifeoflittleitaly · 26/05/2019 15:33

I can’t see this working, he’s
Emotionally detached already. Get legal advice & prepare for the worst... I speak from exactly the same position back in January. It didn’t work out!

BumbleBeee69 · 26/05/2019 15:59

be honest OP... is this man behaving like a man that ...

Wants to Date You Hmm

NOPE

Ruru8thestars · 28/05/2019 19:40

Hoping all is working out for you op

Snowfalling · 04/06/2019 14:16

How are you getting on op?
I've been thinking of you and keep checking back for an update.

ilovecatsabittoomuch · 04/06/2019 14:23

What the actual hell, pack his bags and tell him to fuck right off!!! You can do far better!

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