Would you email the other woman?!?!?

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Help! I'm so hurt & angry..I have started another post (previouse one - Advice Please, husband blaming me for going off with another woman)

I have just found out that this woman is back on the scene again and they have been emailing each other constantly and recently seeing each other...

He has completely fed her a load of bullsh*t as he has done with me...god there's so much, I wouldn't know where to start!

The thing is, I'm so hurt & angry...this woman made our life a misery over christmas and during the time we were trying to make it work...now she's on his case again and what makes matters far worse is that he's snivelling to her about how he only made a go of it with me because of our daughter...and that his happiness didn't come into it

Anyway, I'm rambling, sorry...been up all night and felt like I wanted to email them both to put the record straight and let her know what a lying, cheating, b&st&rd he is!!

I realise I'm very upset and don't want to do anything I regret...should I email them both and have my say, or should I somehow just let it go and let her realise for herself??

Help!! So frustrated, but then on the other hand, don't want to stoop to their leave iykwim...

if someone doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore why cant they just have the decency to leave before shagging anything in sight??????????????????????

idod good point actually they wont recognise her pain more likely just laugh. some people are just unbelievable

i dont think it shud matter that shes only 21 she should know she shouldnt be shagging married men

but its always the men that go off shagging cos us women are at home taking care of their kids their dinner their washing ......................

and she knew after i spoke to her we were married even showed her th etexts he was sending me that day saying how much he loved me i was his heart and soul! and she still went off and had him for 3 weeks! If a man can cheat on his wife mother of his kids what makes her think she is so damned special he will be faithfull to her!

Once a cheater always a cheater

exactly,its just plain rude when u think about it

exactly,its just plain rude when u think about it

it should be made illegal to cheat i think.

Yes, that's exactly my point, if he was just back with me for the sake of our daughter and he realised it was the wrong decision, then why couldn't he just sit me down and tell me that...rather than having his fancy woman lined up in the wings for when I kicked him into touch...

Sadly it's his pattern, he left his fiance for me (I didn't know he was still with her at the time, I hasten to add!!), the he was with me, left me, when straight to this bint, then realised he'd made a mistake and the grass wasn't greener, so was trying to get back with me while he was still with her (again, I didn't know that at the time)..now he's been in contact with her again, so he's ready to go straight to her now that it's all gone sour with me!!! Priceless...what a w&nker...myself and the kids deserve far better!!

Still blinkin hurts though

men should be made illegal!!! They should have to go through stringent tests before being made available to the public and even then they should be micro chipped!

I think they should just have their nads chopped off...very painfully and slowly!! lol

yes you and dd do deserve better. Men are gits cant leave one woman till they have another waiting!! Wtf!!

yeah well next time he tries to wangle his way back into ur life just tell him to f@*k off and go ruin some other womans life

see and men think women are cliingy and need to be loved.

my h latest bint has piercings and his said so i heard he wants his tongue pierced. Thinking of offering to give him a free prince albert with my blunt stillettos. wonder if he'd say yes!!

lol thats ace

Prince Albert with a pair of blunt stilettos!! Classic, I love it! Blimey, I never thought I'd be smiling today

The thing is I can cope on my own, infact, it's much easier without him here than when he's around, he causes me so much more work...used to being followed round by his mother! Now this woman of his, is literally begging him to go back and live with her...she misses cooking and cleaning for him, looking after him, she even misses picking up his dirty sock!! (Nearly choked when I read that bit!)

So basically, I'm a nagging old witch because I expect more of an equal relationship, when he's got this woman who is prepared to do and will do literally everything for him!! He thinks he's died and gone to heaven...she will skivvy after him and listen to all his old bllcks (and there's shed loads of it!) His perfect woman!!

Tw*t!!!!

bloody good luck to the silly tart then!!

Im loving being on my own to a point. I miss the cuddles and kisses and sex! And adult conversation. Its lonely in the evenings. So im going ebay mad at the moment got tons to sell if i stop buying for 5 minutes!

So im thinking of living alone till im old and senile then he can move in and look after me when im wetting meself. Until then my next man can come round when it suits me take me out wine me dine me buy me gifts. Then he can live at his house and pick his own skiddies off the floor

I second that SugarPlum...sounds like a good plan! lol

Another one signing in here, who's also had the same things said to her, all my fault. And yes I did believe him (don't any more). I would love to confront the other woman and one day I will. Revenge is a dish best served cold. For very personal reasons I cannot confront her now, but believe me I will. I will never ever forgive my H for what he did to me and our children and I'm still fighting everyday for our life as we currently now it. The "battle" is far from over. However, I have gained strength and re-gained my self-esteem back. I do have incredible low points and friends are there for me when I need to cry. Best way to deal with these w**ers is to let them go and make your own life for yourself and your children. You can do, and you will not be alone. There are many of us here to support you and each other. You can always CAT me if you want too. Sending you loads of

she basically hes got a live in skivvy who's got legs like a lift door...........she sounds well classy....and fcukin stooooopid for wanting to do everything but wipe his arse shes all "your depressed cos she makes u do things" boo hoo

That's right...it's the whole, 'my wife doesn't understand me shite!!'

exactly its a bollox "im screwing her because she understands my needs,and what im going through" wait till she tels him to pick a towel up off the bathroom floor

Do you know what you're spot on!! He used to do his nut if I asked him to do such a thing!! She'll soon get sick of his scummy ways!

see what i mean dont waste anymore tears on him, because ur way too good for him,he will wake up one day and realise what a big mistake it was for him to mess u about the way he has done......and hopefully he'll be alone and u'll be happy with someone who actualy loves and appreciates u x