ItsAMiracle I know very little. And that's how I like it these days. As I've had,what, over 40 dates in the last 4yrs and hardly anything comes out of them! I've had three relationships from pof in that time so my thoughts are do not overinvest and ask for a quick coffee/drink. He hasn't asked much about me, but often when I've met men of few words,i get on with them once we've met. I tend to like the builders,sparkies and plumbers so often in their pof profile don't say a hugh deal but in person we can click.
This one lives at home and works in a factory,which are two things last year I would never have gone for. But I don't think i'm in a place for a serious living together relationship so just going to see what happens. Also 12yrs younger than me (this is all so wrong lol). But is local,works hard and see's his two daughters loads so that's good!
With my Guitarist,you have nothing to lose by just saying ' do you fancy a quick drink sometime (or a little strum :) ) .
I unhid my pof profile the other night,37 views yet only 3 messages. none I would fancy.
I think just ask and if says yes,then great. If not,no loss. Good luck