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H is an animal

264 replies

Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:09

I have obviously name changed for this post and still shaking with disbelief and rage.

I have just gone downstairs from having my shower to find h with his cock over the sink and presumably about to wash it. He jumped when he realised I was there and the first thing out his mouth was oh I was going to wash the sink after!

I stood there in disbelief for a while and then became very angry. In the sink was my mug and a few bits of cutlery. I was so angry with his that I slapped him, I am ashamed with myself for doing this but I slapped him hard. I wash dishes that I prepare our children's food on in there. He also insists on brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink and we've argued over that before, he think I am completely unreasonable in this upsetting me.

He is now denying it completely saying I am seeing things. I am upstairs shaking with anger. I plan to show him this thread so he can see that I am not unreasonable for getting angry with his hygiene habits. There was no need for him to do this, we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in.

OP posts:
peekyboo · 15/02/2019 00:07

We're all going to be getting wet now.

penisbeakers · 15/02/2019 00:09

@Penissink

SILENCE YOU ILL MANNERED BRAGGART! MY STRENGTH KNOWS NO BOUNDS

ThatLibraryMiss · 15/02/2019 00:09

I wash the dog in the kitchen sink. Then I wash the sink. I can't remember when I last had D&V. Detergent and hot water are pretty good at getting smooth surfaces clean.

People insinuating I am an abuser are just weird. I guess the world has a lot of this weirdy type.

What, people who think it's no more OK for a woman to slap her spouse than it is for a man to do it? Yeah, we're the weirdy ones. The people who're agreeing that a little slap doesn't count, they're totally normal. Totally.

IDoN0tCare · 15/02/2019 00:13

We're all going to be getting wet now.

Speak for yourself, you filthy woman. A man pissing in a sink, certainly doesn’t make me wet. Ohhhhh.... you mean....

Penissink · 15/02/2019 00:15

TISK! BRAGGART INDEED. I AM THE ONE MADE OUT OF STAINLESS STEEL FEEBLE ONE.
LEDGEND HAS IT THAT THOU HAIL FROM A PLACE CALLED "IKIA" AND ARE MADE OUT OF MEAR pLAstiC.

DoctorDread · 15/02/2019 00:52

😂

penisbeakers · 15/02/2019 03:36

@Penissink

AT LEAST I'M NOT STUCK IN THE KITCHEN! I CAN MOVE ANYWHERE! YOU ARE CHAINED IN YOUR PATHETIC COUNTER THRONE!!

Also your name is Dave so you can't really be any good.

Littlechocola · 15/02/2019 04:51

I wouldn’t be happy about finding a penis in my sink but I wouldn’t hit someone either.

Boysandbuses · 15/02/2019 05:02

Why would you kids be using the cutlery straight out of the sink.

Surely you out the cutlery in the sink to wash?

Call that dv if you will. I hit him hard on the arm, he's 6'4. I am sure it really hurt and will emotionally scar him for life.

Yes because being hit by your partner, is absolutely fine if you are 6ft 4. That's fucking ridiculous. The impacts of being hit by your partner isn't just physical. It's mental as well. Being tall doesn't change that.

BringMeAGinAndTonic · 15/02/2019 05:24

Maybe it was a Valentines gift. "Surprise! Honey, I've washed the dishes with my cock!"

If there's a bloke out there with a knob of that magnitude, he's totally allowed to come to mine. Shock

OnlineAlienator · 15/02/2019 05:29

Very wrong to hit him. I think he was peeing in the sink which is pretty filthy and i wouldnt like at all. Or, im weirded out by why it was sooo urgent he washed his cock there and then and didnt just shower. You should both apologise and seriously consider your future together imo.

Mysterycat23 · 15/02/2019 05:44

So many questions and so few answers on this thread Sad

SummersB · 15/02/2019 05:45

Yeah that totally happened...
to the people defending the DV - if my husband ever slapped me, even if it was “only” on the arm, he would be out the door so fast his feet wouldn’t touch the ground. He would no longer be the man I married and I could never trust him again. Those of you who think slapping your spouse is ok under any circumstances or on any body part whatsoever, you need to re-evaluate your view of a healthy relationship IMHO.

Mummyoflittledragon · 15/02/2019 06:09

Yes definitelt yuk. When I was 20 I had a bf who couldn’t be bothered to go upstairs and pissed in the sink at his place. He also had foreskin cheese - I assume from wanking and not cleaning himself. Nice guy but I got rid. These sort of behaviours were part of my decision.

LunafortJest · 15/02/2019 06:17

I don't understand why he would deny it. You saw it with your own eyes. He knows you saw it. Is he stupid.

Purplecatshopaholic · 15/02/2019 06:42

Apologies if this is a genuine post, but I am creasing up reading this!

NameChangeNugget · 15/02/2019 07:08

And this really happened..... Hmm

Omgineedanamechange · 15/02/2019 07:13

I believe it, caught my ex pissing in the kitchen sink on top of a pile of washing up cos he was too lazy to walk upstairs. Usually he’d go in the garden (I swear I’m not making this up) but it was too cold that day. I was a drama queen apparently for throwing all the dishes in the bin and filling the sink with bleach.

importantkath · 15/02/2019 07:30

Naked chef?

januaryisover · 15/02/2019 07:40

Mysterycat exactly 🧐

thefirst48 · 15/02/2019 07:43

An ex of mine many years ago was so lazy to walk upstairs to the toilet admitted he use to piss in the sink. Luckily I never lived with him 🙈

TooOldForThis67 · 15/02/2019 07:44

Maybe OP woke up and realised it's all been a bad dream, like Bobby in Dallas?

mimibunz · 15/02/2019 07:53

I don’t understand your reaction. Slapping him? Shaking with anger? That’s way OTT.

ifyouknowmeyoullknowthis · 15/02/2019 07:55

How disrespectful - I hate when men think it's okay/a good laugh to get their dicks out wherever and whenever. There's no need. *

Which men are these?? I don't think I've ever seen a man pull his dick out for a laugh Confused

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 15/02/2019 08:15

I’d be Hmm WTF but would not start shouting over that.