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H is an animal

264 replies

Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:09

I have obviously name changed for this post and still shaking with disbelief and rage.

I have just gone downstairs from having my shower to find h with his cock over the sink and presumably about to wash it. He jumped when he realised I was there and the first thing out his mouth was oh I was going to wash the sink after!

I stood there in disbelief for a while and then became very angry. In the sink was my mug and a few bits of cutlery. I was so angry with his that I slapped him, I am ashamed with myself for doing this but I slapped him hard. I wash dishes that I prepare our children's food on in there. He also insists on brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink and we've argued over that before, he think I am completely unreasonable in this upsetting me.

He is now denying it completely saying I am seeing things. I am upstairs shaking with anger. I plan to show him this thread so he can see that I am not unreasonable for getting angry with his hygiene habits. There was no need for him to do this, we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in.

OP posts:
MajesticWhine · 14/02/2019 22:24

Why would he wash his cock in the sink? That's so weird. Am I missing the point?

CheekyFuckerHQ · 14/02/2019 22:24

I’ve just asked DP (6’4”) if he thinks he could reach to wash his cock
In the sink.... he says it depends on how long his legs are 🙄

Original poster
Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:25

Yes, I slapped his arm. He denied doing anything making like there is something wrong with me. He has form for doing this. Believe what you will.

OP posts:
FissionChip5 · 14/02/2019 22:26

‘Masturbasting’ I think they call it.

Iggly · 14/02/2019 22:26

@Wheredoistartwiththis

He has form for pissing in the sink?

The reaction from me was because it’s disgusting. Not because I doubt you.

MajesticWhine · 14/02/2019 22:26

We have a quooker- you would want to be careful.

Mummylife2018 · 14/02/2019 22:27

@TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge & @Notthemessiah have you heard yourselves?! Domestic violence and violent wife?! She slapped him! You see it all the time on soaps! She hardly beat him up! Get a grip.

And no, I've never hit a soul

TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge · 14/02/2019 22:27

There is something wrong with you...

Feelingfullandreadytoclean · 14/02/2019 22:28

Why did you slap him? Would you expect a slap for doing something annoying?

To be honest I would have laughed. Sounds a right sight to behold.

Mscandylamb · 14/02/2019 22:28

OP l would of reacted the same.. I mean wtf does something like that??

TripTrapTripTrapOverTheBridge · 14/02/2019 22:29

Mummy she said she'd 'slapped him hard'. In anger. If a bloke done that...

LadyDeadpool · 14/02/2019 22:29

Mummylife would you be ok with your husband slapping you hard then? Don't make excuses for violence. Being hit once is one too many times.

Wolfiefan · 14/02/2019 22:29

Time to install a garbage disposal OP. And get some net curtains too. Hmm

LadyDeadpool · 14/02/2019 22:30

In fact why are so many people defending this violence? I guess we still have so much educating to do on why violence is never acceptable between anyone...

DeRigueurMortis · 14/02/2019 22:30

Really Hmm

But then again maybe I'm too naive to think a grown man might piss in the kitchen sink due to laziness.

Perhaps some men actually are that disgusting....

That said DS did a wee in our big Belfast kitchen sink once. In his defence he was 6 months old and being bathed in there as I'd hurt my back and it was easier for me than bending over the bath.

(Preemptive: DH was away with work or would have happily bathed him and yes the sink was scrubbed and sanitised before and after).

BaronessBomburst · 14/02/2019 22:31

What's wrong with cleaning your teeth at the kitchen sink?

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Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:32

It's fucking disgusting. We prepare food in there, it was flopped over the sink and he was splashing water towards it. I am so relieved there are women here who find this disgusting too. And then to outright deny it!

OP posts:
pallasathena · 14/02/2019 22:32

How low can you get?

wigglypiggly · 14/02/2019 22:32

He must have a very long bendy winky to fit it in the sink.

DeRigueurMortis · 14/02/2019 22:33

In a word bacteria...

You don't want to be washing items you eat with in the same place you're spitting out bacteria from your mouth (or other orifices).

MissTook · 14/02/2019 22:33

Why was he washing it- what the hell had he been doing with it?

BlokeHereInPeace · 14/02/2019 22:34

No,sorry. Long walk up the stairs, she's in there having a shower, the football's on, and there's a sink. He was about to have a pee. Deffo.

Mum2jenny · 14/02/2019 22:34

Is washing his knob in the kitchen sink any worse than washing hands that have been involved in stripping a car engine when they are covered in grease?

S021 · 14/02/2019 22:34

I would have laughed I think

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 14/02/2019 22:35

He‘s a dirty minger.

But there’s no need to hit. You’re both in the wrong.