H is an animal

[Wheredoistartwiththis]

I have obviously name changed for this post and still shaking with disbelief and rage.

I have just gone downstairs from having my shower to find h with his cock over the sink and presumably about to wash it. He jumped when he realised I was there and the first thing out his mouth was oh I was going to wash the sink after!

I stood there in disbelief for a while and then became very angry. In the sink was my mug and a few bits of cutlery. I was so angry with his that I slapped him, I am ashamed with myself for doing this but I slapped him hard. I wash dishes that I prepare our children's food on in there. He also insists on brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink and we've argued over that before, he think I am completely unreasonable in this upsetting me.

He is now denying it completely saying I am seeing things. I am upstairs shaking with anger. I plan to show him this thread so he can see that I am not unreasonable for getting angry with his hygiene habits. There was no need for him to do this, we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in.

At 5'10 it [your vulva] would be aligned with the bathroom sink, but below standard height worktops.

I might have also exaggerated a little a lot

At the end of the day, what's shocking is hitting him! I still can't imagine how that actually happens.

Yes its gross pissing in the sink, even if only for the fact that it'll very quickly stink like a male urinal in your kitchen, but that it's somewhere DC might be reaching up and getting germs from, its just not compatible with hygienic routines.

He should ltb, yes.

Another thing I never thought I would be thinking or needing to say! only on MN

I was mulling on this. Maybe they have one of those cool taps that detach from the upstand and stretch out to spray round the sink. Another practical use for it turns out to be 'knob washing'

Hahaha have just found this thread
Am wetting myself laughing 😆
In all honesty I would have pissed myself laughing if I’d found DH with his cock in the sink. Probably would have announced it loudly to my teenagers too😆

That's an awful lot of piss in your life, WoollyMummoth.

Now if I found him hanging his arse over the sink , I would be questioning his sanity and defo not be laughing

Somethings wrong with him.

That would totally put me off. I need to feel respect for a man after seeing him do that respects gone.🤨

Splash some Zoflora round the sink and get a divorce.

@TearingUpMyHeart We have one of those! I will now be looking at it differently in the morning 😂😂 do I need to supervise DH in the kitchen?

Reasons aside, I'm shocked that so many people (Mumsnet included) are having a good laugh about a woman assaulting her partner.

Even worse, the OP attempts to blame her partner as his actions caused her to slap him hard in anger. (Though later changes this to him screaming and intimidating her).

Then she goes a step further to add it's okay to assault him as he is big and can handle it.

As a DV victim this thread is more disgusting than a man putting his dick in a sink. A dick you would assume the OP comes in contact with now and again.

Dcm74 I 100% agree with you, it’s absolutely awful. So sorry for whatever you have been through.
This thread is and insult to victims of DV.

I'd have you arrested tbh

Dcm74
I reported MN's post asking them to apologise for joking about DV. I got an e-mail saying "It wasn't intended to denigrate any victim of domestic violence and we apologise if it came across that way"

Awful "apology", saying sorry if what they said came across that way. No apology for the joking, no statement on the thread.

And I see it continues after my posts, and others, highlight how inappropriate it is.

Why are you happy to laugh at DV @TearingUpMyHeart @WoollyMummoth @
bubblegumbottles ?