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H is an animal

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Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:09

I have obviously name changed for this post and still shaking with disbelief and rage.

I have just gone downstairs from having my shower to find h with his cock over the sink and presumably about to wash it. He jumped when he realised I was there and the first thing out his mouth was oh I was going to wash the sink after!

I stood there in disbelief for a while and then became very angry. In the sink was my mug and a few bits of cutlery. I was so angry with his that I slapped him, I am ashamed with myself for doing this but I slapped him hard. I wash dishes that I prepare our children's food on in there. He also insists on brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink and we've argued over that before, he think I am completely unreasonable in this upsetting me.

He is now denying it completely saying I am seeing things. I am upstairs shaking with anger. I plan to show him this thread so he can see that I am not unreasonable for getting angry with his hygiene habits. There was no need for him to do this, we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in.

OP posts:
BettyBizzghetti · 14/02/2019 22:49

OP, wouldn't the cutlery have been washed meanwhile if it was in the sink?

FWIW, I would think it was filthy to leave stuff in the sink. But I wouldn't hit someone for doing it.

What are your thoughts on blow jobs?

Laughing v much at the violation of Sunday lunches. Grin

RedHatsDoNotSuitMe · 14/02/2019 22:49

Half term?

TearingUpMyHeart · 14/02/2019 22:50

Utility sinks, ensuite bathrooms, dishwashers. All things I am appreciating more tonight.

AmICrazyorWhat2 · 14/02/2019 22:50

I think she hit him because she was so outraged and shocked at what she was seeing. That doesn't make it right, but I can see how it happened.

BrokenWing · 14/02/2019 22:52

Wtf was he doing? Gross 🤮

What else does he get up to when you aren't around? Don't put up with it, demand an explanation of what he was doing, why he was doing it, how on earth he can think it is acceptable, had he done it before, wtf was he thinking doing it today. Then decide.

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 14/02/2019 22:52

I'm so sorry OP. I just couldn't help but laugh at your OP.

exits thread slowly.........

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Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:52

I have no idea what he was actually doing. I saw him with his penis flopped over the sink and he was splashing water toward it. He denied wanking, pissing and cleaning it. He is denying it all and saying I was seeing things.

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wolfgirl11 · 14/02/2019 22:56

Is this thread for real? 🤔

allthegoodusernameshavegone · 14/02/2019 22:56

Oh ffs he was having a wee, wash the cutlery again, no biggy

Daffodilshootsahoy · 14/02/2019 22:56

He must have a massive imaginary cock for it to be "flopped" over and into the kitchen sink.

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 14/02/2019 22:57

🤣🤣🤣🤣😄😄😄😄

DramaAlpaca · 14/02/2019 22:57

This is all a bit grim, really.

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Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 22:57

I said flopped over the sink, not into the sink.

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Daffodilshootsahoy · 14/02/2019 22:59

Not into?? 🤔 seems pointless. May as well have used a beaker.

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 14/02/2019 23:01

So how much of it was 'flopped' over the sink?

And was he scrubbing it with one of the washing up sponges?

And was it half on the worktop/half on the sink?

We all need to know. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😄😄😄😄

Jaspermcsween · 14/02/2019 23:01

I’m sniggering.
I’m sorry

Next time slap his wet clean cock

Jaspermcsween · 14/02/2019 23:02

Try saying
“Wet clean cock “ over and over, fast.

Not easy , is it ?

Daffodilshootsahoy · 14/02/2019 23:02

screaming 🤣🤣🤣

Jaspermcsween · 14/02/2019 23:03

Do you have one of those quite fancy taps with the up and over spray thing

Sethis · 14/02/2019 23:04

You're nuts.

What, exactly, do you think he has on his cock that is able to contaminate your cutlery?

Does he have AIDS? Herpes? Meningitis?

No?

Presumably you're okay with sucking his cock from time to time, yet when he washes it in the remote vicinity of crockery, you lose your shit?

The crockery that you were going to wash with washing up liquid? Since it was in the sink to be washed? And would therefore not be remotely contaminated by his activity?

You're absolutely pants on head insane and if my partner physically struck me under these circumstances I'd be gone that day.

It's objectively MORE disgusting for you to sneeze inside the kitchen than it is for him to wash his cock in the sink. Sneezes actually transmit germs. Washing your penis doesn't. Would he slap you for sneezing?

At BEST this warrants a wearisome "Not in the sink dear" or a bit of piss taking. Not for you to lose your rag.

Jaspermcsween · 14/02/2019 23:04

I think you are disrespecting animals

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Wheredoistartwiththis · 14/02/2019 23:05

sethis come round for a cup of tea then. I'll be sure to make yours with said mug and teaspoon.

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Monday55 · 14/02/2019 23:07

How many toilets do you have in your house??...

I also think he was pissing in the sink, which is revolting!

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 14/02/2019 23:09

LOL! Grin

redandyellowandpinkandgreen99 · 14/02/2019 23:09

OP's husband...... Grin

H is an animal