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I have obviously name changed for this post and still shaking with disbelief and rage.

I have just gone downstairs from having my shower to find h with his cock over the sink and presumably about to wash it. He jumped when he realised I was there and the first thing out his mouth was oh I was going to wash the sink after!

I stood there in disbelief for a while and then became very angry. In the sink was my mug and a few bits of cutlery. I was so angry with his that I slapped him, I am ashamed with myself for doing this but I slapped him hard. I wash dishes that I prepare our children's food on in there. He also insists on brushing his teeth in the kitchen sink and we've argued over that before, he think I am completely unreasonable in this upsetting me.

He is now denying it completely saying I am seeing things. I am upstairs shaking with anger. I plan to show him this thread so he can see that I am not unreasonable for getting angry with his hygiene habits. There was no need for him to do this, we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in.

But I bet you wash your hands in the kitchen sink. Have you any idea how bacteria-laden your hands are? I think for common decency’s sake your DH has been distasteful but it’s just a different part of a thoroughly bug-ridden human to be honest.

Now, the one who was shagging the Sunday roast, that’s different...

I would have given me a laugh if I'd found DP washing his dick in the kitchen sink. I might even have offered to help him. OP, you have presumably had your H's dick inside you, so I don't know why you're clutching your pearls about it being in contact with your sacred mug (is he allowed to drink from said mug, or is this banned, too?)

I don't think hitting someone is a laughing matter, though, and he ought to be getting his MN ducks in a row.

@FissionChips5 Love the frozen chicken story

She never found out how many previous Sunday lunches he’d violated.

Now there's a statement full of foreboding.

What food do you prepare in the sink?

Not ideal but I wouldn't have slapped him for it. You took it too far OP.

Do men just randomly decide to wash their bits? I cant imagine that thought process.

Is washing his knob in the kitchen sink any worse than washing hands that have been involved in stripping a car engine when they are covered in grease?

I am going to say "Yes. Yes it is." Because knobs do not belong in the kitchen sink.

Wasn't there the same thread last week?

Were the kitchen blinds open? Were the people over the road gawping at him? My money's on him having a piss, assuming you only have one bathroom, which is pretty grim. You shouldn't have slapped him though.

Was he peeing in the sink or had he just had a bit solo fun?

Couldn’t get very outraged from the ‘hygienic’ point of view. Nothing on or in a willy is going to make you sick.

I’d find it lazy and very vulgar (which I HATE) and be very sceptical that he’d intended to do a soapy wash of the environs afterwards. There would def have been stern words. I know that if he’d been seen (neighbours, postman, etc) then we’d all have been judged, forevermore. If the kids see it, it’s bad role-modelling.

It’s bad enough how many little boy visitors to my house assume the bidet is a very convenient-height urinal. I’ve been tempted to make a sign with pictures!

Time to install a garbage disposal OP

That would give him a nasty shock!

Seriously though, that's vile and very unhygienic. I'm really fussy about only using the kitchen sink for food prep and utensils, no one's allowed to wash their hands in it, let alone other parts!

Don't you was fruit and vegetables in the sink? I don't want his cock washed over the cuttlery our dc will be using in the morning.

Will you stay with him? He sounds pretty gross.

I'd sooner clean 'knob juice' from s kitchen sink than the residue from ppl washing greasy car bits contamination from their hands any day.
Have you any idea of how much muck can be deposited in that sort of scenario?

What the hell

That is revolting but what on earth did you hit him for? Just make him clean everything with bleach, there's really no reason to become violently unhinged.

I think I've missed the point because I'm finding this hilarious. Especially "we have a lovely bathroom for him to wash his cock in"

But not the slapping.

Wait a minute are you storing CLEAN cutlery in the sink?

But bleach is more damaging than germs from his penis...

Will you stay with him? He sounds pretty gross

Yes because OP is a fucking dream, she is just as bad what she done is assault and if I was him I’d be leaving. Hitting in a relationship is wrong regardless of who is doing it and should always be the reason for a divorce

Yeah yeah

Mugs and glasses have been in your lips, cutlery in your mouth. How will mouth bacteria not get in the sink from those, but will from toothpaste?
Don't most people wash fruit in a bowl or sieve anyway? You hardly need a kitchen sink full of water for a few raspberries.
And what about pets bowls? Or vegetables covered in mud with slugs and dead insects?
I just regularly clean the sink.

I’m still confused as to why he was washing his cock in the kitchen sink... was it particularly dirty? Does he like it clean before a wank? Was he having a wank? A piss? You haven’t answered questions?!

I totally overreacted, I admitted it in my op so not hiding what I did. He denied what he was doing then came into my physical space and started shouting and making me feel very intimidated so I hit him on the arm. Call that dv if you will. I hit him hard on the arm, he's 6'4. I am sure it really hurt and will emotionally scar him for life.

Do you leave clean cutlery and crockery in the sink? Do you never scrub dirty spuds in the sink? I just don't get the obsession on MN from some about the sanctity of the blessed kitchen sink. Ours gets all sorts dumped in but it's also cleaned all the time.

Though it's never had a droopy willie in it as far as I'm aware...or a non droopy willie...