Given tablet, has he cheated?

[Monday2018]

My Hb started having a really bad burning sensation, wanting to urinate but just couldn't. He went to GP Out of hours, but when he got home he placed a tablet on the table and said that's for you to take. I didn't understand and ask why's is it for me? He said doctor thinks you need to take it. Again why, what's it for? I asked. An infection, doctor thinks you may have given me an infection. I felt numb, I had no symptoms! Had my Hb cheated on me? I asked what infection? He said just take it. There was no leaflet. I have no idea what it was. Could it have been a bacterial infection. He's plumber, could he have picked something up from someone's toilet, blocked sink. Or do you thinks he's cheated and that tablet was for an Std? It was one single quite large tablet.

I'd assume he threw the packet away.

Why; unless he was trying to stop you seeing it?

They won't even have been packaged together, if they are single dose treatments for conditions. They'll have been two lots, one for him and one for her. So if the medicine really was for her and not another dose for him, he deliberately opened both, threw away the packaging and didn't even tell OP what the tablet was, what it was for or what the side effects might be.

To be honest, I wouldn't even be sure that he'd taken his.

Please please get checked out OP

I would say your biggest issue is that. Whether he has cheated or not is an absolute red herring at this point. How has he got you so low that he can control you that much? I would be glad he has cheated, this is obviously a situation you need to be free from.
Yep. This.

I trust my husband 100%. There is absolutely no way I would take a pill he gave to me without some definitive answer to what it was and why I needed to take it. The same is true of any family member. I would never do that, it’s such a risk.

You have MUCH bigger problems in your relationship and don’t think for a minute your 8 year old isn’t suffering because of it too.

I don't know how to reply to someone personally crazycrunk,sorry. We often see plumbers in the clinic worried about catching diseases from the work they do. Just lately we have had an influx of plumbers asking about hepatitis and we don't know what's caused it. Slight assumption from most is because it's common for plumbers and other tradesman who work in others homes to get into risky situations with their clients and just didn't want to say so though.

There are all levels of seriousness in the OP's posts AND she hasn't come back to update.

I’d be booking him an appointment with his gp end going in with him to discuss what exactly is going on

chlamydia can be symtonless for years & years - it's possible you've given it to him!

My poor excuse for a dh gave me a dose of bacterial vaginisis whilst pregnant. Only new studies are suggesting it's an std. men obviously don't have vaginas, but if he's slept with someone who has bv, he csn carry it for a short while and pass it to me.
I've had it 3 times in my life, each within a week or two of dh coming back after sleeping with someone else ( the same person ) It can also cause early miscarriage, which I had and bled so heavily, I almost died of cardiac arrest.
You have my absolute sympathy. Your dh is treating you as a fool. No gp would prescribe medication without screening you first. That's ridiculous. To blame you too is insulting. I would go to same gp as dh and ask the question. At least call up.

Jesus

OP clearly seems vulnerable yet posters are so eager to pile on the paranoia: ‘check his phone’, ‘he’s cheating on you’, ‘I CANT BELIEVE YOU TOOK THE PILL’ and even ‘get your daughter checked’

Glad you’re getting some private advice from the poster working in sexual health, OP.

Finding out whether he is cheating or not is actually not the most urgent thing at the moment.
The first step is for the OP to go to her GP today and tell them the whole story. The GP will then be able to advise on what the pill might have been and to carry out the tests that they think are necessary.
Once that has been dealt with the OP will have more information about what has happened.

The whole thing stinks to high heaven.

I cannot believe someone who's dh has given them std's is still with that person.
Would have been told to fuck off after the first time. But 3?? Wow.

Make sure you get tested today! Sooner you get tested more chance you will know

Ozziewozzie . I hope he got his come uppence.

@Ozziewozzie I hope it was a typo and he's now ex-dh?
How disgusting of him to go back three times to the same woman he knew to have BV. Does that not cause a foul fishy smell??

@Monday2018 How did you get on with the doctors? Did you take your dd with you?
I hope you are feeling okay.

men obviously don't have vaginas

Not so sure, some men are massive cunts.

No advice OP, just hope you're ok and have some answers

@Carrot

Yes it does stink. Really, really bad.

And still no OP!

@Timeless

Your response is priceless!

@Renarde1975

I even namechanged for it!

Then @Carrot, it was worth it!

Apologies...timeless

@CallMeRachel
It was only after the third time I clicked. Too much of a coincidence. The first two times he yokdtold me he was at his mums!
He finally admitted it after I had evidence.......this was after 2 years of telling me I'm nuts, paranoid and crazy.
Not always fishy I'm glad to say but very uncomfortable!! STBEH now Funny, as I've never had it since!!

Oh, that's a good update Ozzie third time lucky

Did you see the Dr OP?