After a month and maybe 5 dates. What would you think?
This is in response to me asking if they wanted to carry on seeing me, as they had gone quite distant.
I DID really like you (I think you knew that!) if I’m being honest, we have a lot of banter, back and forth, but there’s no depth whatsoever in the relationship thus far and it makes me wonder if that’s just you, or if you’ve got more to say at a much deeper heartfelt level or if you’ve been holding back. To be honest I really can’t tell, but so far in our relationship I’ve been looking for a lot more from you from the mind and from the heart.
I think the sex part would always take care of itself and, if I’m being brutally honest, that’s not my main driver with a would-be life partner.
I don’t know if you’ve picked up on it, but I’m a bit of a philosopher and a deep thinker, and I’m in my happiest place when I’m talking about deep meaningful things and we’ve just not done that at all. In fact, as I said, you don’t really know me coz you’ve never taken the time to get to know me and if I’m being honest, I’ve been really quite hurt by that.
Too intense or is there an element of truth? I try to keep things light and not get overinvested so early on but this has really hurt me.