Why did he block me? I fucking hate him

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We were together 8 months. It was amazing. He is definitely the man I want to have a future with.

He broke up with me citing the reasons that he needed to focus on work and so took a job in another country.

I have 2 dc so obviously couldn’t move with him.

A month after he left, i WhatsApped him a message to say hi and that I missed him.

A few days later he called to apologise for not responding and to tell me he’d met someone.

I played it cool and said fine. We can still be friends right? He said ok. But then he blocked me. I know he’s blocked me because none of the messages I sent have gone through.

What the fuck is his problem?

Please someone tell me what proper love making is. Is it simultaneous orgasm? Looking into eyes? Please...im a married woman and I need to know

The one thing I take comfort in is that I bet he’ll never have better sex with anyone. We were incredible in bed together

OP are you having us on? You have got to be kidding

The one thing I take comfort in is that I bet he’ll never have better sex with anyone. We were incredible in bed together

Maybe on your eyes but not his.

Oh, no. Just no.

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Don't count on it

The one thing I take comfort in is that I bet he’ll never have better sex with anyone. We were incredible in bed together

I think you need to grow up. You also seem to be full of your self importance.

Oh dear.

She's got to be trolling now.....

Yeah, surely no one is that desperate. If it is real, it's tragic.

I would not think his current partner "forced" or even "asked" him to block you. Most guys would rarely have even spoken about their past properly to their current partner especially to the extent of telling her that you're contacting him. Girls though might say that kind of stuff about ex-bfs containing them to their female friends but very unlikely he's discussed you texting him to his current gf.

He probably didn't want to risk you coming between them but don't worry, there's nothing to suggest he'll treat the new girl any better than he treated you.

Op you sound obsessed and creepy.

Never had better sex? Why's he ran off with someone else then?

Sorry but grow up, and move on. Focus on your children and stay away from men for a while as you obviously can't handle rejection.

Maybe he blocked you so he wouldn't have to confront feelings of conflict, or guilt when he saw your face pop up on facebook.

I agree with snowballs forever, I've had about 5 or 6 of these ''relationships'' in the last ten years but no man every thinks I'm worth the package that is me and my children too, which seems very upsetting at the time but actually it shows they weren't all that, they had nothing much to offer.

There's nothing wrong with that, OP. At least you had a good time so it's not all bad.

And before the mn jury lynch me I don't mean that my kids met all of these men

Oh god. He'll be getting bedded plenty I bet.

The blessing for you is that he's in another country and you'll never bump into him in the tinned beans aisle of Lidl. There is a god after all.

You take care 😍

That's just fucking nasty...

When I was just turned 17 (almost 20 years ago now) I had a very intense 6 month relationship with a boy a couple of years older than me. He was beautiful. Absolutely gorgeous. He was funny, clever, witty, treated me like a princess to begin with, I couldn't believe my luck that this guy, this stunning guy who could have his pick of girls, had chosen me. I had spent most of my teen years being called fat and ugly and weird and the boyfriends I did have treated me like some shameful secret. He was like a dream come true, he didn't hide me away, he introduced me to his friends, I felt so grown up hanging out with people who had their own places and no curfew or parents to negotiate. I worshipped the ground he walked on. I fell for him hard. Really hard.

Then one day out of the blue he ends it. Simple as that. He loved me but he needed 'space' maybe we could look at things in a couple of months. We could be friends. I am not ashamed to say that I lost the plot for a bit when that happened. I did some stuff I am deeply ashamed of in my efforts to get him back. It was a dark dark time. With the benefit of 20 years of hindsight I now see that he was never as into it as I was. I was just turned 17, 16 when we met, he was 19 going on 20, that is a huge difference in maturity. I thought 'love' was forever he knew it wasn't.

This I know though, he didn't love me. I don't think I really loved him. I was very young and very naive and I made a fool of myself over him. It's very easy to do.

This man of yours is sending you a very clear message, listen to it, grieve for what you thought you had and move on. Don't go chasing him, turning up at parties or building up the relationship to be something it wasn't etc, avoid him wherever possible. He has moved on. It's over.

There's no need to stick the boot in Vaultdweller.

Also for the sake of argument, being s great shagbdoesnt get you lasting relationships, it just gets you shags. In fact many men are much less inclined to marry the great shag than the perceived good girlmorvthe girl who can barely be arsed to shag them

I remember at 21 the love of my life I'd thought at the time left me for another woman. After we'd had sex (for the love of God stop saying 'love making') he would tell me we were meant for each other because sex would never be that good without it.
So when he left I thought well fuck there goes amazing sex I'll never find anyone again. And I was heart broken.

A couple months later my housemate took me drinking and I had a one night stand. And fancy that the sex was good. That was the moment I realised I didn't need him for nyrhing and had had an amazingly fun free single three years until I met my now husband and it's been an even more amazing 5 years.

Give it time. Get under someone else

Oo I bolded something! How did I do that?