Support for Spook 3

[ponygirl]

Here it is!

Thanks everyone.

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Thanks ggglimpopo. Have just sent him an email to that effect. How I am sick and tired of his constant nastiness. I won't be clinging or calling anymore-sign the papers and get the house on the market you model father you.
Stupid bastard.

ggglimpopo, how true about happiness and getting back on your feet making you desirable again!

Spook, do you think he will go into a rage when he finds out what you have done, and start trashing your stuff? I am worried that maybe you should change the locks on your house?

snap anorak, I was thinking the same thing about the locks

Spook do remember the kids in school who picked on others because looking back they were really feeling insecure? He reminds me of them, calling your parenting skills. He's guilty as hell and knows it.

I don't think so anorak. I thought of putting the chain on and letting myself out the back door. I wish I hadn't given him the keys now. What concerns me is that he'll come in and clear me out. There's alot of expensive art that I haven't packed up because it's going to take some negotuating who gets what. I think he may come in and take all that but I really haven't got the time or the inclination to get the locks changed again this morning.

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Spook, please be very careful. It's so easy to confuse an ex with someone who cares! Assume the worst and guard against it, it's so much better than being sorry later. That art could be the gateway to your new life in London.

God-just had a phone call. Someone has hacked into my mastercard and spent thousands.

If the company has called you, that means they are not going to hold you responsible, surely? We've had this.

Oh God. Just told him about this stuff and he's gone absolutely mental. Am trying to pack up car and get away.

OMG spook are you ok?

We had this happen to us (credit card fraud), and the bank wanted us to report it to the police to get a case number (or something) before they'd refund the monies. Ring the credit card company and ask what they need you to do. Apologies for intruding on your thread like this. Problem for us was we actually still had the card in question, but someone was making masses of purchases on it, even bought a car!!!

spok?

sorry meant spook?

Am just trying to get everything in the car and hit the road. Yes boys are with me.

put your most valuable art in the car too!

Will post from posh later.

have a safe journey xx

Hi everyone. Got here OK. Not heard a dicky bird since he rang my mby and home phone off the wall after I told him. Was going to text him after I left but he called me about credit card so dropped it into the conversation. He screamed at me "Are you that fucking stupid" The news didn't go down well atall. Lovely Beccarollover is going to pop round and make sure he's moved it when she gets a chance otherwise I will be very worried. It's bin day tomorrow!!!

Hi spook. So glad you arrived safely. You sound a bit calmer now.

You do have to start fighting for yourself, you know. You can't go on giving all your energy to h. When you go home I hope you will take care of the art you mentioned and any other valuables, get them to a safe place with a friend or family member where he can't just go and take them. He hasn't treated you with fairness this far, and I think your protecting yourself against his unfairness is perfectly reasonable.

Have fun with your friend tonight, enjoy your wine and your company and forget about him. Life goes on and your new phase is only just beginning. Things are going to be just brilliant for you.