I moved in with my partner 18 months ago and his two sons - now 18 and 15 and his two big dogs.
He was working normal hours in the area with a good job and salary/car etc.
But about 6 months ago he decided to hand in his notice and start working offshore as a freelancer. I didn't want him to do this as we haven't been together long and our life was great.
He did it anyway, regardless of me.
I am now working full-time whilst keeping the boys in line and looking after the dogs whilst he is away. It's a stress and I am suddenly a single parent for a big chunk of the year. I have no children of my own really get on with the boys etc - but I feel used and it's making me resent him.
I have spoken to him about this and he's said he will not give up his 'dream job'. He gets defensive if I challenge him.
If I move out I am back to expensive rents and a big upheaval, but I don't know what else to do. It's making me fall out of love with him.
Any advice greatly appreciated.