My new bf has disappeared...

[DizzyBeeme]

Hello all...

I wonder if anybody can help..my new partner has literally gone awol. We have been together for nearly 6 weeks now and he calls / txts me about 20 times a day . He is really into me and we have a lovely relationship. He lives about 2 hours drive from me. On Wednesday I received a distressed phone call from him..saying some friends had stabbed him in the back and..he sounded broken and said it was not my fault..I then got a flurry of txts from him..and a final txt at 6.50pm saying his phone was out of battery and his body really hurts... he sounded panicked and very distressed. I tried to call/message back but phone was off by this point.

Since then. Nothing. His phone is switched off. I don't have any family or friends numbers yet..and apart from drive down to try and find the man..I do not know what to do.

I'm thinking Maybe he needs a few days to sort himself out...he has not been on Facebook or any social media at all. He is a responsibly physiotherapist with a great job..I'm st my wits end ladies. I really really care for him..
I just dont know what to do.. help..

Thank you x

DizzyBeeme Good that you've decided to leave it, it does sound a bit dodgy and you don't want to get caught up in anything if he has a partner. Good luck.

I’ve just checked that register for a friend who I 100% know is a physiotherapist and for my best friend who is a paramedic and 4 of her colleagues. Only two of the paramedics are on there and the other two and the physio are nowhere to be found so I don’t think it’s completely accurate - him not being on there doesn’t necessarily mean that he was lying about his job.

Actually I was thinking of that poor guy in Ghost remember?

"GET OFF MY TRAIN!"

😂 all the hate for @AnyFucker, we all know how she rolls

orange if your friend is a practising chartered physiotherapist he will be on the HCPC register

If he is bucket and wet sponge merchant he will not

www.gov.uk/register-physiotherapist

I agree, it is an official register used employers etc. I've sometimes checked colleagues (other professionals. not Physiotherapists) and they are all n there.

I would have worried too. I am glad you are going to move on.

You are well rid.

Have you heard from him OP?

He sounds creepy

Have you heard back yet op??

Christ, the way people are being demanding shitbots on this thread is revolting.

He's definitely being an over dramatic moron, but even if he resurfaces, tell him to go forth and multiply. You don't get to behave like that and go bloody AWOL without explanation, unless there is a genuine reason for it.

I would probably be calling around hospitals and police stations in his area, as a precaution, unless you've done that already. If nothing turns up then I'd be inclined to assume he's just a waste of a wanksock.

I agree with you penis (god, that sounds weird) why are people harassing the OP telling her to do something over and over AND providing links??? FFS no one has to do anything on here and report back. Jesus.

Did he get in contact at all OP? X

No..I refuse to let him occupy my mind anymore..whatever his reasons.. unless he is dead they are not good enough... xx

@DizzyBeeme how strange!! Wishing you lots of luck for the future xx

He's not contacted you still?

Hope you find something less dramatic xx

@DizzyBeeme Did you ever find out anymore about this?

Hi no.. I think it was a dramatic was of dumping me..either way it was very hurtful. Anyway...I've recently met a lovely new guy and we are going out for our first date this weekend so let's see x

Good for you @Dizzy hope your date goes well

Have fun!

Yay, good luck OP