Possible/easy to just meet an OW???

[IsabellaMoltisantixx]

This is gonna sound a really stupid question but how easy is it for guy I meet ow when working away????

Long story short (see other post) dp is working away for 2 nights . Before he went he was acting a bit distant, not as lovey dovey it reassuring (I always get paranoid when he works away) but I did check his phone (very quickly) saw nothing on there

Now he's gone he hasn't contacted much at all but has been online LOADS on WhatsApp so my question is how would he have just got a woman's number and from the place where he's at??? Bear in mind he's never been to this place before, it's the first time he's had to go for work so not like he knows anyone there?

Would it just be easy for a guy to say go on tinder or POF or whatever n start chatting to a girl from that location n meet her? Surely it needs planning n like I said I checked phone beforehand n didn't see anything there

Just wondering if anyone has met a guy on the first day or two of talking to them. I've NEVER EVER used dating apps so I dunno how it works I'm really against them n hate the idea

Well said Shit

I wonder if you informed ss that you are ttc with this man? You are neglecting not only your current dc but are not actively preventing other children from being born into this mess. And that is terrible.

fully agree with @WellThisIsShit and with all others regarding forgetting this man, getting your shit together, getting a solicitor and giving your kids a normal life.

About your question - YES. Its easy, its like a piece of cake. He doesnt even need to work away. Its easy to hook up on Tinder, in bars, anywhere. Dont bother yourself with that, if man wants to cheat, he will. You have more important stuff to think about instead of how easy it is to pick up someone.

Usually, Mumsnetters rally around to offer support to anyone trying to escape an abusive DP. I have on so many occasions witnessed the warmth and genuine sympathy and seen so much constructive advice offered over the years. But you have zero intention of actually leaving this man. On the contrary, you are actively trying to cling on to him, looking to get pregnant and make yourself even more dependent and add further ties to an abuser. You are so desperate to hang on to this guy, you are selling out the welfare of your DC. This is what exasperates posters. You have been given advice and support in previous threads but just ignore it. You put your own neediness above everything, especially your children. This is why no one pats you on your back and bothers with your misplaced concerns. Your DP shagging around is really very much the least of your problems. Your DC should be your priority. I feel so sorry for them!

What she said-

Nailed it!

Every day you are letting this shit show continue your children are at risk.

My ex DPs mother behaved this way and prioritised an anusive scumbag over him and his sisters and now, 30 years later, he fucking DESPISES her. They all do. Listen up love, this is your future. A DP who hates you now and your kids who hate you in the future. Sounds bleak to me.

Also, everyone on this thread is wasting their time. Myself included