I find a woman attractive .....do I tell her?

[pippyo33]

I'm 33.
I've always had relationships with men.
About a year and a half ago I started liking a woman (she's my friends friend).
We've had a few weekends away (the 3 of us) she is great.
I've found myself thinking of her non stop.
I thought maybe it was a crush but I still feel the same 1 1/2 years later.
She invited me to her sisters birthday party (we didn't know each well then )
She has asked me what type of person I like and what personality I go for.
I think we have flirted.
But as far as she's concerned I'm straight.
Would you even say anything?

Defo let her know you're interested. Worst that can happen is some temporary awkwardness!

Ach, she's totes interested! Send her @monoclue's message and have some fun with it. If we're all wrong and she's not, so what, own it - you do fancy her and she'll be dead flattered.

I was straight until recently getting together with my gorgeous lady and can understand your fear of lack of experience with women. But HONESTLY, if you both fancy the pants off each other, it really won't matter. You will be too busy enjoying the moment …and oh my god you are in for a treat - the sex is amazing!

Keep us all posted. Got a good feeling this is going to turn out really well for you.

Life's too short! Definitely ask her out for a coffee

She's deffo a pint woman ha ha

I had to sit my now oh half down and really spell it out!!!

A pint then, go for it!

Thanks everyone for the pep talk
I've drafted a few texts out ..just deciding on the best one.
Ha ha

Is she single? If so send it asap!

Definitely do it! If you are both single and have nothing to lose. It will be an amazing experience and may change your life. Also fwiw I don't always think people have "types" as such, sometimes you just meet a person and it all falls into place. Being with a woman is intense and you will love the passion of it. Good luck! xx

I also think sending it now is better. If she knows you are out with friends, etc, in the conext of being "straight", she might feel more insecure about whether you truly like her or as being fanciful (if she likes you). This way she knows youve thought about it properly.

Go for it, sounds like you know her well enough to have made a sound assessment of if she might fancy you. But not so well that you cant ride out the embarrassment

Yeah she's single.
Last time I seen her (with my friend) she was saying she feels like she will never meet anyone.

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Go for it. Im gay. Finding a woman i like never happens. You wont get many chances like this

Op I've got a really good feeling about this one! She so fancies you.

Good luck woohoo

I never hug straight friends, i want that closeness with a partner but i cant find one as they are all straight. Its shit. You will homestly make her day x

Go for it OP!

Text her now. I feel very invested in this thread. Good luck.

Go for it OP!!!!

Aw OP send that text!

Send the text!!!! You have nothing to lose!

Thanks I'm going to text ..
We only had met a few times when she invited me to her party ..could that be a sign?
And then the messages about the festival ..

Just little things like when I was talking to her she was smiling (but I guess friends smile at each other )
Maybe I'm over analysing things.
Nothing ventured tho

It might sound stupid but if I had a chance to go on a "date" with David beckham or her ...at this min I would pick her.

My god girl, get on with it! She sounds dead keen. Just text her!

Oh and I know she really fancy's Dua Lipa

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