Starting over after 25 years - Part deux

[Lily007]

Wow need to start a new thread.

The support I’ve had from all the posters has been amazing and very much appreciated and I hope will continue.

He really is a piece of work isn't he ? I know you won't feel it now, and that Xmas and New year will be difficult. But, dear God you have dodged a bullet here.

Selfish, entitled, shallow and narcissistic. Doesn't surprise me re the spending. But all for show clearly.

I am sure your future will be far happier without him in it.

I honestly can't get my head round the arrogance and sense of entitlement he must have to see a pic of your son, his father, his uncle and his other family members celebrating Xmas and express his disappointment he was not invited, After What he did. And this is your son. How can he not know he could never be invited.

It really is utterly mind boggling in the extreme.

Could he have early onset dementia? I mean that genuinely. I can't see any other way that he can't grasp the sensitivities of the situation.

I agree Bluntess, either that or he really is sociopathic.

So glad your family all have your back Lily, it must torture him.

Sorry...typo in your name Bluntness

Ha ha @Bluntness. Perhaps he is suffering early onset dementia. I, however, think it’s more likely, as @Tootstastic says, a severe case of narcissism.

I think he genuinely has such a high opinion of himself that he thinks eventually all will be forgiven as far as the lads are concerned. I very much doubt that’ll ever happen because they’re all still disgusted by his behaviour and his constant showing off on IG only pisses them all off even more.

I’m again in angry mode at the moment which helps my mood no end.

I’ve said it all along, OW is going to have to be something really special to compensate for what he’s lost!

Stay angry, honest to god though, the behaviour is someonething else. I mean seriously, this is a man in his mid fifties, covering himself in tattoos, taking steroids, cheating, living with the ow, lying about god knows what else, boasting on social media about his behaviour and then fully expecting to be included in his ex wives family celebrations, it's unfahtomable.

He's totally deluded!

Hi Lily and all on your thread. Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas. Be kind to yourself lovelyxx

Yes Merry Christmas to @Lily007 and the rest of the thread regulars.

Just KOKO and surround yourself with the ones you love and Christmas will soon pass and it will be a new year to get your teeth into.

Cheers everyone 🥂 (except mine's a sparkling water this year, as I'm still low carbing!).

Aw thank you so much @Rememory. Merry Christmas to you and all my “saviours” too 😘

After not really looking forward to Christmas now it’s here I’m feeling quite positive. I’ve had quite a few invites which I’ve accepted, so should be pleasantly distracted.

Thanks to you all for your support over the past few months 😊

🥂Cheers @Tootstastic. Fortunately mine will contain alcohol 😘

Merry Christmas Lily and lots of positive vibes for a very Happy new year!

Haha...lucky you, enjoy Lily!

Have recently namechanged but been on this thread (and previous ones) since the beginning

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas Lily surrounded by people who love you. Whenever you have a rough time just think how far you have come 🌟

And Happy Christmas to the rest of Lily's cheerleaders 🥂

@sherrysfortea. Thank you so much 🥂😘

🙄 sorry @sherrysfortea pressed post message too soon.

Merry Christmas to you too 😘

I’m another who has name changed and been on both threads. Merry Christmas Lilly and to everyone else who posts on Lilly’s thread

Merry Christmas to you all

Thank you @Beautifullydamaged and @WhoKnewBeefStew.

Merry Christmas 🎄🎁🥂😘

Well, it's nearly the end of the year and nearly the end of this thread.

Congratulations Lily for getting to the end of 2018. See, you did it and are still in one piece. It may not feel like it always, but you're stronger and wiser and in a much better place. The life you live today is an honest one, long may it continue.

Wishing you a wonderful New Year.

Lilly... a watcher here but... By GOD lady you have this. I'm wishing you nothing but the very best for 2019 and beyond. Keep on posting, good, bad, bitchy or plain 'don't give a fook' You will triumph over the pair of deceitful twats in the end... Believe that. Here's to a happy New year to you and yours x x

Hi Lily, sorry I've been absent, been away for a bit, so have missed wishing you a Merry Christmas, but I sincerely hope that you have a fabulous and wonderful New Year, filled with lots of new opportunities. I sincerely hope it's going to be better than the horrible year you've had to go through, but I'm certain that the rest of your life is going to be better than KH's. xxx

@Putitdownnow @quittingdaily @Opportunitynox. Thank you for your good wishes.

I am so hoping 2019 is a better year for me. I’m much stronger now than I was a few months ago ........ that’s a start isn’t it 😊

I wish you all the best for the new year too 😘

Hi Lily, not posted before but been reading from the start. How was your Christmas and New Year? Hope your well x

Hi @Kat2000. Had a better Christmas and New Year than I anticipated so not doing too badly thank you.

I’m feeling much more positive than I was a few months ago thankfully.

Unfortunately I’m still waiting for KH to provide bank statements and pension documents. I’ve sent 2 reminders to his solicitor to no avail. Stupid man seems to be be hiding something 🙄.