The ignoring.....still going on (thread 3)

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Old thread [https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2749459-the-ignoring-not-so-gaaaaa-part-2]

@RandomMess asked "Is he supposed to inform you/get permission from you to take him abroad?"

I reply : Nope (apart from one specific trip he was thinking of planning).

Thinking some more, maybe this might also be relevant. We're going through difficulty going to sleep at night with my DS who is 7 and HF ASD. It's anxiety related with him. He stays asleep once down, so we've been keeping him company while he drifts off. It's not ideal, but we do still get an adult evening afterwards, and better than the constant requests or complaints about not being able to sleep. If your DS is similarly ok once sleeping, and not waking with his worries, would it work for you to sit with him while he falls asleep, and then slip out? We've also let DS sleep on a spare mattress on the floor at the end of our bed when it's really bad.