Husband and prostitute

[MrsGaslighted]

I've been with my perfect husband 25 years. Really wish I'd seen mumsnet 8 months ago, before I saw the text on his phone arranging an appointment with a hooker, and had not shown my hand. I confronted him straight away and was told he was never going to go through with it. I now know about 'the script'
I have done a hell of a lot of digging since but he has outright denied everything. I have so much circumstantial evidence but can't prove a bloody thing and I think I am going mad!!

You might be better drawing an income for life from a potentially increasing business, then paying the mortgage for the other half of the house, from that income.

^^

This MrsG xxx

How are you op? Thinking of you and hope you are doing ok xx

Fuck it - I'm doing ok. Thanks very much for asking. I've had a good few wobbles where I am trying to figure out what the fuck he was doing. Fb, insta, wnatsapp. But at the end of the day I saw him walking out of her house.
I just want to be happy again. I adored him, I can't believe he would throw us away. God it makes me cross!

And thanks everyone, I will definitely ask the solicitor before I agree to anything xx

It's totally normal to want to know everything @MrsGaslighted

I can understand getting a bit obsessed with trying to uncover all of the lies.

Unfortunately you will probably never know.

Has he tried to contact you at all?

Ah OP, you’re doing amazing, a few wobbles are to be expected , he has turned your life upside down. We are all routing for you !
Sending you positive thoughts xx

Hope things are moving along for you, @MrsGaslighted ... I've been away for a fortnight and couldn't help wondering how you were getting on

I've been thinking about you OP, hope things are getting on a more even keel for you

Just found this thread and read most of your posts OP
you are so strong. He's a shit. Don't let him make you feel sorry for him or responsible for 'helping' with his addiction'

Also, phone bills won't show anyone anything these days. Phone calls can be made over Whatsapp which will show no footprint on anything. Likewise text messages, videos, pictures.

Did your solicitor appointment go well?

Thinking of you - I started again at 40 and have never been happier

Your husband is seeing a hooker but that is not the problem. It is a symptom. The problem is something else. I have found that out by looking it squarely in the eye in the same situation.

@MrsGaslighted how you doing now? X

I remember this one very well.
I hope you are doing OK @MrsGaslighted
I hope the financial arrangements are coming together for you.

TerriT- maybe read the full thread?