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Husband taking an Uber at strange time

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YoMommasMomma · 30/05/2018 13:54

I was away from home this weekend with my DD and when we returned I saw an emailed receipt from Uber (my husband uses my laptop to check his email and leaves himself logged on, we are very open with passwords and use each other computer/phone) which showed that he got a taxi from our house to another address about 15 mins away at 12:10am in the morning.

I am concerned as this seems very odd. The questions in my mind are - he has a car so why didn't he drive if he was going to meet a friend? He said he didn't go out that night (sometimes he goes to meet friends for a few drinks when we are away) so why is he lying? Did he have someone over to our house and pay for their cab home? This would be odd if it was a friend as they all drive and why would he pay for their taxi? I am worrying that he had another women over and paid for her cab home.

There was also a half drunk glass of baileys in the kitchen when I returned and it was in a wine glass. He does drink baileys but would usually drink it from a normal glass.

It is all very strange and I know I have to ask him and I am sure there is a reasonable explanation but worried there isn't one.

I also feel so pathetic for even typing this right now. I guess I really just wanted peoples opinions to see if you also think this is suspicious and if you has any ideas for what to do, other than just ask him about it. Thank you.

OP posts:
Babysharkdoo · 10/06/2018 19:07

Any news op?

cantimagine · 29/08/2018 14:32

@YoMommasMomma Did you figure anything out- My husband has been working out of town I would go back & forth to visit him. I use to get his Uber receipts emailed to me for tax purposes, then realized I was no longer getting them. I just had a gut feeling something was off, so I asked him and he made me feel like I was crazy. I didn't say anything further, but then last night while visiting him while he was sleeping I got his phone and went into his Uber App, - I noticed that there was an address with 1 number off of a house I knew I asked him and he said he didn't know her address and if he did he was probably just helping her out Then when he feel back to sleep I got his phone again and noticed he deleted the app. So I went on the app store and there it was on the cloud so I reinstalled it and all his info was still on there. My heart is broken he's been there multiple times as far back as April going late nights from his location, then maybe out to a bar, and then returning early mornings There would be no activity while I was in town, then day or 2 it was back on again. Not sure if you can get on your spouses Uber app but then you can see all activity. It wasn't the outcome I wanted

NadiaLeon · 29/08/2018 16:01

Cantimagine - Uber has caused you heartache. A reason not to use it...

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