Dh sent me a photo by mistake.

[CoatsProtectionLeague]

It’s really rattled me.

He sent a bunch of photos that all made sense in relation to a big purchase we’re considering- this other photo was completely random.

I sent a text back saying- I’m quite sure you didn’t mean to send this photo to me.

When he came back from work he was very defensive and said there was nothing inappropriate/sexual about the photo and that I was being unreasonable.

I have a very strange gut instinct that I cannot shake off. We almost split up 5 years ago when he was trying to persue someone on social media/sexting. We got over that and decided our marriage was worth saving on the proviso he did it again he was out-instantly.

Something’s not right.

Where do I go from here experts?

Your organisational and planning skills are awesome OP.

Cant take the credit @Beaverhausen

It was @Aprilshouldhavebeenmyname idea lol!

Good for you op! Hang on in there ☺️ X

Go easy with details, I am concerned about press too and if interested, they maybe reading already, I think they might wait until you leave to print. If you have 4 of a thing tell us you have 5 just so its not too identifying.

@agathaf I am intrigued in un-googleable places but if you can explain dont put here and drop me a pm instead.

Hope you had a lovely party with the kids, you lot have so much fun ahead of you. Onwards op and once more, pace yourself

Betty have pm'd you.

I’m not sure what the un-googleable places are either, I assume they’re a part of Mumsnet that is private ?

I pissed on ex partners shower puffy/scrubby thing daily for about 2 weeks after he cheated.

He was washing himself in piss daily. I felt good, it was the therapy I needed. Wouldn't hesitate to do it again.

Ungoogleable places? I'm intrigued! And OP I an in awe. When I found out about my bastard of an ex's double life I threw him out within half an hour. You are one strong woman

Best. Thread. Ever. Go you!

Coats clean the dogs bum with his toothbrush

green it’s not done to mention the name or it becomes googleable!!! I’ve reported your post

OK Aunt. Thanks.

OP you're a star

Have you considered squirrelling money into an account with a solicitor towards any legal fees you can expect?
Might make the process seem manageable. Its something I am doing as my SHL has advised it will help when arranging payment terms for the final bill.

Worth a thought maybe?

Beaver - ouch! Poor dog.

@Mxyzptlk or she could put fake tan in his moisturiser lol Plus all she needs to do with the toothbrush is brush the bumhole clean lol

I’m sorry to disappoint.

I won’t be doing any dastardly deeds other than binning what I consider crap

Good on you re: dastardly deeds. I don’t know about you but I would find the implementation so stressful (goody two shoes here!) your long term goal and well-being is a much more important use of your energy.

Good on you re: dastardly deeds. I don’t know about you but I would find the implementation so stressful (goody two shoes here!) your long term goal and well-being is a much more important use of your energy.

So self righteous I posted it twice!

Lotsofplanetshaveanorth
I’m just about managing to deal with the day to day and organising all this stuff covertly.

Focus
Focus
Focus

Such a brilliant job you are doing Coats! Very very impressive

GO COATS GO! 🥇

I made the mistake today or reading one exchange fully-I printed it off for my files.

I am distraught. Talking like he’s Disney Dad and I’m lazy because on that one particular day he took the kids to a town We never go to under the guise of giving me a “break”

He was in her hometown 2 hours away and sharing selfies of him and my DC all having a good time-he’s sent OW photos of the DC. That’s so wrong.

OW even passed them on the street furtively and they laugh about it-saying them cannot wait to be together when my DC aren’t around.

I’m broken 😢

Fuck.

Cunt.