He has ended it.

[VeganAsia]

I have had to name change for this one.

After a week of disappearing, he has said that he no longer wants to be with me, because I don’t make him happy.

(There is a little bit of a back story) I will be honest I am hurt by him telling me this. He has also said that DS6 and I will have to move out of the house because he wants to sell it ASAP. He has told me to find an apartment and he will pay the rent for me.

I don’t have many people in real life that I would feel comfortable discussing this with, I guess it is because I am embarrassed.

Well done. I reckon there's quite a strong probability that your mental health will come leaps and bounds when DP is an ex. The threat he made about DS is a classic abuser's line. Don't worry on it too much, your legal person will be very familiar with it.

RainyApril

I believe it is hard to live with me, I need help to change my ways, I am going to go to a therapist this week.

DS came out of school today with a party invitation, I don’t know how I am going to tell him that he can’t go, I would love him to go but it’s not possible right now with my paranoia and anxiety.

Can your dp take him? Difficulties in your relationship shouldn't prevent you both from co parenting effectively in your son's best interests.

RainyApril - Morning, DP would never take him, I don’t think parents/guardians are allowed as it states on invitation “Transport will be provided for Birthday boy and friends”

DS is not going to the party, I’m not going to trust a stranger with my son. I will tell DS this evening that we will do something instead, but I’ll let him pick and birthday gift for his friend.