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Am I a “slut”?

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SShaming · 02/04/2018 16:51

NC because I’m a regular MNer and don’t want people to know!

I have been single for the first time in over a decade.

This past year has been filled with dates, almost relationships and generally testing the waters again.

One of my dating partners turned into a FWB. And recently I met someone who is lovely but a lot younger than me and so I have zero expectations of it turning into anything serious.

I am having no strings sex with both men. Not exactly regularly with either but enough for me to feel that my sex drive is being satisfied.

Neither men have asked to be exclusive and I have been completely upfront that I’m just having fun after a difficult LTR.

However, I told my sister about it and she was really shocked and asked whether I was worried about being a slut!

I was annoyed by her use of language but at the same time wondered if there is something in what she is saying.

OP posts:
OutofSyncGirl · 06/04/2018 00:24

An not can of course

TheSecondMrsAshwell · 06/04/2018 13:31

Definition of slut:

"Someone having more sex than the person calling them that."

So the questions I have to ask are:
Is everyone okay with the situation?

No jealousy or cheating going on?
Is everyone being safe?

And perhaps the most important question of all....
What business is it of mine?

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