Literally just saw a text on DH phone from my best friend saying lumu :(

[autismmumwithafamily]

What do I do.
Standing in the kitchen waiting for the kettle and my husbands phone beeps. It's a delayed text from midnight. It's from my best friend. It says 'nite gorgeous lumu'
I am stunned and my heart is going like the clappers. We have 4 children. She has been on family holidays with us, my children call her auntie. My marriage is not great but mainly because he's been foul to me recently. I can't even cry.

Bloody hell @ChopsticksandChilliCrab you cannot be serious? Have you no morals?

Argh so many multiple posts on this thread - must be a technical glitch - please sort it out Mumsnet!

The occasional multiple is fine but when there are as many as this it just clogs up the thread and makes it longer and harder to follow than it should be.

How are you doing OP?

You're having a fucking laugh!!!

And again

how are yu

Chopstick clearly being a GF for some reason , jog on

Are you ok OP?? What's going on? X

Are you ok OP?? What's going on? X

Hi OP thought of you this morning & noticed you haven't posted for quite a few days , I really hope you're ok and haven't done anything rash . We're all here for you if you need any support . Sending strength xxx

Its the worse betrayal -my ex dh 27 years ago had an affair with my best friend, tbh I don't know who hurt me more.

Hope you ok, you can get over this and move on but it's bloody hard.

Its the worse betrayal -my ex dh 27 years ago had an affair with my best friend, tbh I don't know who hurt me more.

Hope you ok, you can get over this and move on but it's bloody hard.

Hi OP thought of you this morning & noticed you haven't posted for quite a few days , I really hope you're ok and haven't done anything rash . We're all here for you if you need any support . Sending strength flowers xxx

This

Doesn't look good that OP hasn't been back.

I really hope you are okay OP

Feel really sorry for you, OP, can't begin to imagine how shocked and heartbroken you must be. Hope it will turn out to be the beginning of a new, real life

Hope you are OK autismmumwithafamily

I hope OP is having it out with them hence the lack of recent posts but is also safe and has someone close she can speak to. Let us know you're ok, not out of curiosity but concern!
If it's true then shame on them. You'll get through this though. If you're going through hell keep going.

98£?

Ive just read this OP and I hope you have followed all the useful advice on here.
I know it seems like everything is crashing down, but I promise it does get better. It truly does.

Really sorry op.

Hoping that it might just be an accidental text to the wrong person but doesn't sound like it. My work colleague has accidentally text 'I love you xxx' before to me while on autopilot thinking he's texting his wife, but follows it up with a quick 'that was not meant for you, sorry' so you would think she would have sent that after.

Where did the op go?

Where did the op go?