Transitioning from affair to main relationship

[niteandfog]

Has anybody done it? How did you make it work? That's about it :)

Why would you ask that question in this particular forum?

They go to the same school? Omg it just gets worse....poor kids. Having to face each other in school. That's way to close to home, selfish selfish people. Though my reaction is one you would expect as you love winding everyone up on here lol. You're pathetic op

Wow.

I think my daughter herself would be ok with it within 6 months, but I don't think his will. I also need to ask for my ex's ok and I'm sure he'll say 6 months is way too soon.

'Happiwifey thank you! It's stories like yours that I'm looking for'

Awwwww Maybe you can one day be a 'happiwifey' too

Will your ds do same when she's married for he visa....

Your poor kids at school

Grim

You say its about the children ?? You question didn't mention them? You didn't say, how can I make my affair easier on my DC I feel bad enough?? No you asked if your relationship will work!!

I'm 99% convinced you are a troll. I don't know a soul who would put a friend through this never mind children !

You only reply to certain post , you very vague with what you say your either a troll or a very troubled!

And what was you expecting a support group of OW to pop and and congratulate you and welcome you into the club with tips and tricks on how to make sure your man doesn't do the same to you ??

'I just give my now DH what he was missing before, he doesn't have to go anywhere else.'

There you go Op that's what 'happiwifey' does so it's simples....

Your 'afterthoughts' ie your dc

Hmmm maybe not so easy

@brewsandbooks said this earlier in the post. Most definitely a troll. Or someone who is very attention seeking, loves winding up others, obsessed with affairs for some strange reason. I think this person is the type to go on catfish lol (programme on people lying about who they say they are for hose who haven't seen it)

There's absolutely no way this post is real. If it is on the off chance, op is one of the worst people I've ever read about on here.....

She won't reply to us though @brewsandbooks like you say, she picks and chooses who she replies too....then she adds abit more crap (kids go to the same school being the latest one) to get more responses and to wind people up even more lol....I bet she's after 1k comments......

Also, it's obvious that if he looked for me his.marriage wasn't in top condition - or maybe it's that he saw an easy lay and couldn't keep it in his trousers.
He's such a catch!

Bitzy your right And it blows my mind Iv followed the tread hoping to find some remorse or something but no and then when happiwife basically said she manages to keep her post affair relationship going by bending over ( I give what his wife didn't ) I'm done !

That's happiwifey who has never made a posting before until this thread

In another thread she said her mum also had an affair and her grandma did too so maybe that's why her mother also had no conc3rn for the Oms family being torn apart.
whole families got great morals as you can see

Truth @shatnerswig

Dot But then those of us who've followed this OP through her various and often contradictory threads on this long running saga aren't surprised at anything, are we?

She's always posting the most contradictory stories. I wonder if she's competing with the fifty shades saga

Fifty Shades of Fog

Well well, look what I've read...your words of sage advice on another affair thread (when op was sad because she broke it off):
Yes people you can have an affair and STILL love your husband

Yet on here yesterday you say:
Also, it's obvious that if he looked for me his.marriage wasn't in top condition

So no, it's not obvious actually. According to you one can love their partner yet still have an affair. You're so full of BS you can't even keep your own opinions straight...

Fifty Shades of Fog

I’m dead lol!!!!!

Fifty shades of fog 😂😂

Actually, the writing is on a par with that incredible work of literary genius

You're right... I'm gone there's absolutely nothing for me here

OK op, we'll watch out for your next thread, no doubt to be started in the next few days, if not later today. You're on a roll atm with every new detail starring in its own shiny new thread...

At last!

Just keep the kids out of it for as long as possible. It's highly likely you'll be split within a few months so with any luck they might not even need to know.