Other woman

[Lucky6266]

Please don't judge me but I'm involved with a man who has a wife and kids abroad.
Wife and kids know about us and gave given blessing as it's allowed in thier culture. We all talk on Skype. My guy says he loves me alot.
He is very committed to his family sends money to them etc but also appears committed to me. Am I doing wrong pls.
I know I'm probably gonna be slated.

Just want to say that it is genuine thread and not fake has somebody has suggested.

Let's just say if all not what it seems I will ensure I find out.

Thanks for all your opinions I will be keeping them in my mindset

Yes, yes, he is a male with a wife and mistress. Must be having his cake and eating it too.
Who knows the context behind his marriage?! Possibly arranged. Can't/won't leave her because divorce is taboo and she is the mother of his kids.
Lucky, time will tell what will happen.

This happens a fair bit in his country its because I'm western woman that it appears so wrong.
Which country is this exactly? Men are encouraged by their family to have a mistress? Wonder what the reason for that would be.

It's just that we are going round and round covering the same thing over and over now
Yes, because you keep saying the same shallow things despite what ppl say, and don't answer questions which might require a bit of critical thought on your part.

I hope this is a wind up, because if not, you, and women like you, are part of the reason men are so easily able to get away with misogyny and disrespect.

So what do you want me to answer and I will

You're hilariously blinkered (or can't read very well). The post just above yours contains two q for a start. Neither of which you answered.

I believe my original q were:
Are you OK with it because it's his 'culture' (Im assuming it's not yours,
so why are you okay with it )?
Or are you OK with it because his wife and DC are overseas?

Okay bombshell I converted and yes it's easy because they overseas

And I did nikah with him

She also wanted this

So then you are married, as I believe he could take a number of wives as long as he provides for them. So your earlier comments about not getting married are BS.
Did you receive the Mahr? And did you have the required witnesses?
Tbh, if you have converted you obviously can't see this as a problem, so why post?

I can't be bothered now just leave this thread.

You don't get to decide who does or doesn't post.

If wifey is happy
Your happy
And he's over the moon I'm guessing
Main thing hope the DC are happy
It's your life but just be careful

So you're not the other woman. You're his second (not legal) wife.

What a waste of time and energy.

I am out I can't watch this impending car crash anymore I find it really triggering

Drip feed or adjustment?

Well considering people think what a waste of time they still can't leave the thread now.

Really honestly there is no need for alot of the nastiness on here.
Seriously we have a witches coven on mumsnet.
I have seen so many people fall victim.
Watch out for the next onslaught lucky hell have we got a cover anywhere

What is your issue? I’ve read the whole thread through. You’re not listening to anyone, or not understanding. You’re determined to start a fight and calling all women on mumsnet witches. That’s been your aim isn’t it op? To try and make yourself out to be hard done by.

Your posts make no sense, they are conflicting and you deliberately dodge anyone asking questions you can’t answer.

Not to mention you have said the thread is pointless and you’re leaving dozens of times. Yet you still come back posting (even talking to yourself) when no one will engage to try and start another bun fight.

Maybe you’re the issue op, not MN

It appears I am not talking to myself.

Okay I'm listening.
I am a grubby husband stealer who will get her comeuppance, I am deluded, stupid, don't listen to anybody are you happy.
Really if I Sat here and said yes yes your all correct I am everything u say I am you would all still be coming back at me with a barrage of abuse anyway. So what's the point really what you want me to do.

I'm not hard done by whatever makes you think that's my feeling.

God I am accused of pointless posts but everyone keeps coming back with pointless stuff anyway.

Can't help but notice you failed to reply to my (v relevant if you know anything about Islamic culture) q again op. Instead, a few more pointless posts accusing others of being mean.

Yes I know