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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 19:12

Please don't judge me but I'm involved with a man who has a wife and kids abroad.
Wife and kids know about us and gave given blessing as it's allowed in thier culture. We all talk on Skype. My guy says he loves me alot.
He is very committed to his family sends money to them etc but also appears committed to me. Am I doing wrong pls.
I know I'm probably gonna be slated.

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 19:57

Any fucker go on another thread

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QuiteLikely5 · 08/02/2018 19:58

His wife seems pleased.

He clearly has the morals of an alley cat and as for you well all I can say is good luck!!!

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:00

Mmmm

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LaGattaNera · 08/02/2018 20:04

You say "please don't judge me"

then ask us if you are doing wrong.

How does that work then?

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:13

Just asking for non nasty constructive opinions

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Wellfuckmeinbothears · 08/02/2018 20:24

Ok...

So. You are with a guy who is allowed to screw other women...his wife is glad to see the back of him yet you think he is genuine about you. And no alarm bells are ringing? Is your self esteem that low?

Why can't you find a man of your own? Why is his wife so keen for him to stay with you? You all talk on skype...that sounds like a seriously messed up situation and I feel for the kids involved.

You are an utter moron if you really think he wont take another "lover". Best of luck, you're going to need it.

MadMags · 08/02/2018 20:24

Constructive opinions about what exactly?

What you’re doing is not okay. What exactly would be constructive in the circumstances?

You literally asked people to judge you. Why?

ClaryFray · 08/02/2018 20:25

If it's consensual then have at it :)

AnyFucker · 08/02/2018 20:29

There is nothing "constructive" here

Unless you count the storyline planning.

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:40

Storyline any fucker elaborate pls

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:40

I haven't come on here to be insulted

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:41

And I'm not a moran

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:41

Mumsnet has become really nasty

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wilts09 · 08/02/2018 20:42

Lol

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:43

Like I said I have seen so many people get abused on here

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:44

It follows on and on

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:45

Bitchy women it's full of them why bother

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DontDIY · 08/02/2018 20:47

You know you don’t need to make a new post for every new sentence, right?

FissionChips · 08/02/2018 20:48

I'm not a moran

Was that on purpose?Grin

sophie428 · 08/02/2018 20:48

The key question for me would be: how will he react if I get a 2nd boyfriend? That is the test of equality in the relationship. Polyamory is fine in my book but not polygyny. I'd go on a date with another man, tell him and see what happens. It really depends do you want to be his equal or get paid?

MadMags · 08/02/2018 20:48

I’m not a Moran Grin

Must try harder, love. Really.

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:49

Lol nobody wants another go then

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justdontevenfuckingstart · 08/02/2018 20:49

Well if everyone is happy with the situation then crack on.

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:49

Oh there we go

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Lucky6266 · 08/02/2018 20:50

Anyone else

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