Dior, I just meant he's sort of available again - and of course you still find him attractive - he must be very cute. And his response does, I hope, remind you that YOU are cute too (I'm sure you are, you sound it, never mind h's opinion, he has 'issues').
I've just had to lie down for half an hour to catch up a little on the all nighter . We used to do it more often but with 'real life', I just can't do it and work the next day. Dp did say he misses not staying up late with me (well, he could always join me at bedtime, instead of sitting up on his own... When dd heard we'd been up all night, she said she thought we're mad old fogies - but I think even she was glad to hear that we'd talked things through as she hasn't liked having us moping about. I now feel I can face a glass of sparkly with dp in the garden, once he's packed his bags, and we're having takeaway curry later. I know it's not the end of our problems - but the main thing is, we're reminded ourselves of why we're together and why we went through all the hassle of my divorce, dd's anger at us and the awful trauma of selling our flats and buying this pretty little Victorian home.
Dior, hope you have a good evening, I do hope things work out.