From Russia With Love (earrings 2)

[MarilynMonsoon]

Can't believe so many of you helped me that I need a new thread!?

No contact tonight, dread tomorrow's return to the flat though

Wow, what a nasty cunt. Make sure you tell his friend exactly what happened as I doubt he wants a violent drunk staying in his home. Get him packing back off to mummy dearest.

Well done at rising above it. Thirty days and counting.

I'm so sorry he behaved like that, what a shock you've had discovering your best friend and partner is such a shit. I'm so glad you have real life support as well as mumsnet support. Well done for being strong.

Op, you are bloody awesome!

And your ex is a weasel. He's shitting a brick because he's arsed yo his whole life and had no one to blame but himself. What a twunt.

Did you hear anything back from his mother after you sent his messages to her?

Well done you OP! Has he ever shown that kind of aggression before now?

Just a terrible mistake? Ha. So he thought because she didn't actually want him he could crawl back to you?! Tosser.

I hope that seeing him this behave this way wil give you the strength to get through the next few months.

You're an inspiration MarilynMonsoon, stay strong

No he's never been aggressive to me before although he can get road rage which I've never liked.

I'm paying out my rent for the month but doubt I'll stay here. My friends are offering a sofa rota if I need to get out of the flat god bless them

Stay strong

Sorry he was such a bellend marilyn won't be long before you don't have to deal with the selfish prick again

thank goodness you had your friends there, and good on the neighbours.
yes he really did show his true colours

You said previously that you had found an affordable 1 bed flat - are you making headway with that? You are doing remarkably well and he is a fuckwit of the highest order. Take up your friends on sofa rota - they will be able to provide real life support and ensure he doesn't come anywhere near you

I'm so sorry he kicked off like that but it must reinforce how much better off you are away from him.

IM so sorry that you're going through all this. That must have been very frightening seeing him get aggressive. Did the police follow up the call?

although he can get road rage which I've never liked

This is the hint, he gets violent when he has to.

Good for the LL refusing to have him there. I wonder if the LL will agree to changing the locks before you go, so that you both know you are safe?

Earrings might just get the boyfriend she deserves....

Mind you, as others have said, she'll probably dump him before too long when she realises that the cash isn't real.

I don't think earrings wants him !!! LOVED your production line Comment OP. Karma in its finest form !!! You're amazing !!

He basically went nuclear because it was evident from you having handed notice in on the flat that there was no going back. He genuinely thought there was a chance with you and that makes him one class A arrogant fucker. All this is horrible as he has treated you like shit but it will be all in the past pretty soon now. I would bag up the rest of his stuff and get his mate to collect it or dump it at his workplace. He has had his chance to collect it with dignity and failed at that even :/

You are so brave and strong and have a wonderful support system on here and IRL. You are a phenomenal women...I'm sharing the words of the late great Dr Maya Angelou for when you have those quiet moments of doubt and ask why me??. It's not you it's him, you're a phenomenal women

My daughter calls people like your cunt a "liner". He is used to lining up his life before he jumps. Unfortunately for him you acted before he had all his ducks in a row and so all his plans have crumbled. He doesn't know what to do now because the rug has been pulled out from underneath him so is acting like a toddler throwing his toys out of his pram. You are so well rid Marilyn. and

You, OP, are fucking marvellous 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

You are doing great. His behaviour yesterday is shocking what an awful man. Hope you take up your friends sofa offers and start your new life away from that violent beast asap

They nearly all behave like a unhouse-trained tantrummy toddlers when it all comes crashing down. It's jolly disconcerting to see a grown man spit out his dummy, isn't it? Muppet.

You did really well

Next - if he's going to be true to form - is some kind of cry for help/breakdown/pity-fest. This is just to give you the heads up and to recognise it for what it is, if he's truly that predictable. It's an extension of his astonishing me me me thinking. And it's not your problem. He has mummy dearest /Anne Boleynski to look after him.

Your job is to live well

Of course you are shaking and then crashing.
Massive adrenalin rush and then the crash.
You are handling all so well.

WTF do all these dickheads say they made a 'mistake'??
It's not a fucking mistake.
You did not fall dick first into her vagina.
It makes my blood boil!

Keep going OP.
Well done!

I'm in awe of you - keeping calm whilst he went nuclear is impressive. Thank God for lovely landlords, just think - and I know it is a cliche - but today is the first day of the rest of your life, a life that clearly would have been absolute crap if you had stayed with him.