From Russia With Love (earrings 2)

[MarilynMonsoon]

Can't believe so many of you helped me that I need a new thread!?

No contact tonight, dread tomorrow's return to the flat though

Another one thinking of you and wishing you well. Hope shitface had a humiliating day at work and his penis went green and withered.

Any news OP? You're being amazingly strong, been thinking of you today x

Hope it's gone ok today - stay strong

Am just catching up, gutted I didn't get a chance to post on the original thread but just to say that whilst I love the 'Anne Boleynski' references I still think my fave was 'Anne Dropherknickski'

Marilyn I think you are simply IMMENSE. And the way you're dealing is freakin awesome.

Fingers crossed your LL properly plays ball to release you from the tenancy.

Oh - and if you've any joint stuff like sofas etc? Take a leaf out of my Dad's book - I left my ex husband and he was being 'somewhat difficult' over what I wanted to take (all portable, no big furniture items mostly stuff that had been bought by my family as wedding presents like the dinner service, crystal glasses etc - the fact I'd paid for EVERYTHING in the house apparently counted for nowt).

Dad took him to one side whilst I was clearing the kitchen cupboards and calmly yet rationally informed him that if he was REALLY dead set on going 50/50 and was REALLY going to kick up a fuss then he had a chainsaw in the car and was quite happy to quite literally leave him with 50% of everything including sofas, tv and bed........

Oh - and just to add? How anyone that can add 'Tudor Twattery' into their own thread (with thanks to yet another pp for making me laugh with that description) can even contemplate considering themselves as not as intelligent as Miss Russia is beyond me.

You are quite evidently - simply from your posts on here - possessed of great intellect, fabulous wit and huge grace and poise. I doubt I'd have been as well behaved as you.

Like I said, I think you're immense.

You hang tough chica, we're all with you x

Anne Boleynski used her charms on a weak and silly man and apparently didn't foresee this happening. She doesn't sound massively bright.

I wonder how his day went at work today. Must have been pretty awkward with Anne Bolinski, Queen of child bearing sons around 😂

I have chuckled periodically today at the thought of Henry and Anna's return to work. Something of an atmosphere I would imagine.
Hope you're OK OP.

Oh god yes, I hadnt even thought of the first day he goes back in and "exciting winks and flirting across the office with your secret lover" become awkward silences and cold shoulders.

I had a feeling we wouldn't hear from you this evening, now the drama hype and adrenaline have calmed down I bet you seeing him and the pain has sent to another awful low. It's totally understandable if you consider taking him back because you would be thinking with your heart and not your head. You've had a massive shock and you just want the pain to go away so the knee jerk is to take him back, I think all us vipers have done this at some point when your heart is broken. Once the dust settles and you have digested this weekend you will get your strength back and see sense again. Thinking of you op, come back to us all just to let us know your ok when your ready nothing more xxx

For you OP
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Thinking of you OP. We're all here if you need us. You're amazing as others have articulated so well

Hope you are ok today and yesterday wasn't too painful.

Second everything that tequila has written at 00:18

Hope you're ok

Hoping everything went well yesterday, and that you're ok this morning.

Just wanted to say - I think you are amazing
Keep going xx

Awful day.

First things first I spoke to my ( very understanding ) landlord and I can Move out in the month.

He turned up in the early afternoon reeking of booze from I presume the day before, he didn't go to work., I had two friends with me because I was worried he'd get nasty, he was cowed and quiet at first and tried to tell me he'd just made a terrible mistake but as soon as I said I'd handed my notice in he went nuclear, shouting and screaming at me, so bad the neighbours came out to see if I was okay. I kept my cool somehow and told he'd brought it all on himself by cheating and how was that xy production line with the gold digging blonde going by the way?

He called me a fucking cunt and smashed a few glasses and was told the neighbours had already called the police, he left then and have not heard from him since. I was doing okay but afterwards I started shaking and shaking. Friend stayed over in case he came back, have informed landlord of goings on and he says he will have the lock changed and he will consider us both out in the month as he does not want a violent drunk to return to live in his property. I think neighbours calling the cops was the line for him, he's been great. Ex took maybe two bags of clothes pretty much everything else is still here.

I text his best mate to see if they'd heard from him but nothing. Very tired today and working from home spent most of the morning asleep though, apparently that's normal when you've had a bit of a shock.

Anyway, that's how things are right now thank you all so much for thinking of me x

Oh wow so glad you had friends and neighbours to hand. How shocking and scary for you. It is all up from here.

I'm not surprised you're tired op, it's a lot to deal with. Very glad you have understanding and supportive friends and neighbours and a decent landlord.

Any chance you can move out asap and make sure he doesn't have your new address?

You may not feel it right now, but you are so strong. Well done you - onwards and upwards

He just keeps on getting better, doesn't he? He's gone from (seemingly) lovely husband to violent-drunk-the-landlord-doesn't-want-in-the-house in the space of about a week.

Classy.

Since joining Mumsnet I've been creating a mental list of strong women whose stories I read on here.

I ask myself "What Would They Do?" when I come across a difficult situation.

OP, you have joined my mental list!

Well done for getting this far.

"he was cowed and quiet at first and tried to tell me he'd just made a terrible mistake but as soon as I said I'd handed my notice in he went nuclear, shouting and screaming at me"

Didnt take him long to show his true colours, did it? He must be absolutely bricking it that his whole life is disintegrating in front of his eyes. Im so glad you got your notice sorted before he came round so you were saved the long drawn-out wheedling to get back in.