From Russia With Love (earrings 2)

[MarilynMonsoon]

Can't believe so many of you helped me that I need a new thread!?

No contact tonight, dread tomorrow's return to the flat though

I've never " met" less of a fool in my entire life!!! Marilyn you honestly Rock.....xx

Love this.. songs are the way forward.. hit it vipers!!

I Will Survive, surely?

"And so you felt like dropping in and just expect me to be free
But now I'm saving all my loving for someone who's loving me..."

topanger
That list should finish with "Rise" by Katie perry!!

In that case, if music be it....

Mary J Blige - No More Drama

MM
Your feelings for him don't die overnight, they will take a while to fade, try writing down a list of all the hurtfull things he said and did ..... look at this every time you feel s wobble, on the other side of the list write down all the positive things you want your future to hold, so things to do places to visit anything!
It will help to ground you a bit.
You are doing excellent!!
You should be super proud of yourself xx

she does not want him.... x

Eurythmics Thorn in my side - loud.

This is the break up play list when her husband treated her in a similar manner and she kicked him out at the start of the year.

Elton John - I'm still standing
Lily Allen - Smile
TLC - No scrubs
Queen - I want to break free
Kaiser Chiefs - Every day I love you less and less
Britney - Stronger
No Doubt - Ex-girlfriend
Natalie Imbruglia - Torn
Nancy Sinatra - These boots are made for walking
No Doubt - Don't Speak
Mariah Carey - Heartbreaker
Alanis Morissette - You oughta Know
Little Mix - Shout out to my ex
Gloria Gaynor - I will Survive
Pink - So what
Taylor Swift - I knew you were trouble
Ace of base - The sign
Justin Timberlake - Cry me a river
Eurythmics - Thorn in my side
Kelly Clarkson - Since u been gone
Britney - Womanizer
Nsync - Bye bye bye
Green Day - When I come around
Florence and the machine - kiss with a fist
Taylor Swift - We are never getting back together
Carly Simon - You're so vain
Goyte - Somebody that I used to know

Excellent play list thanks for sharing KK

Lots of love to you op... there will be days when you are up and says when you are down-the up will eventually outnumber the down even if you don't feel that way now... these are the hard yards...hang in there...

The old cliche "Time heals" applies here.
It will get better but it's hard until then isn't it.

Don't forget Divine...you think you're a man but you're only a boy.

I have that one ready on my phone for when I exit divorce court. 😂

Oh Divine!
Best shout on this thread @Ineedmorelemonpledge

Just to add to the song suggestions, Godley and Creme - don't want to be under your thumb forever.

Can you imagine having to go into work and face the hot you thing you thought like you (and not just your cc) who dumped you spectacularly the instant you announced your freedom to them

op, ive just read the threads through. i hate your ex! here's wishing that through all this, some nice decent loyal and honest bloke will whisk you off your feet. and hopefully by the next time you bump into ex, you'll be glowing, happy and sporting a big baby bump - WITH TWINS! that should be a big enough punch in the face to him. your ex is such a twat, so happy for you that you are not with him anymore. you deserve better!

Yes I would pay plenty $$ to be a fly on the wall when he walks in to work all gussied up having to work with her but knowing she was just playing a game and he was the loser in every respect. Karma baby!

Hit The Road, Jack!

Got along without you before I met you gonna get along without you now.....

Wow. Just read both threads. What an absolute shithead! MM you have been so dignified throughout, In years to come you will see what a lucky escape you've had.

Him pulling the sad sack, unshaven, poorly dressed stunt then dressing to the nines for work/OW is a good thing ... it's a neon reminder that this is who he is, a manipulative, self-serving cunt of the highest order. It's a neon reminder that you have done the right thing by moving quickly to get him out, keep him out, and move on with your life.

I'm glad you'll be moving soon, OP. Serves him right that he's out on his arse and has to sort his own sorry excuse for a life out.

Keep him blocked.

Connie Francis ..."Who's sorry now?".....

You are not a fool OP, just a normal, honest, decent person who trusts and expects others to be the same. You are also fabulous, funny and strong.

Please don't meet him face to face again, he will no doubt try to belittle you again and you don't need to put up with any more manipulation or cruelty. Good luck in your lovely new flat xx