Mystery earrings

[MarilynMonsoon]

Not sure where else to get advice for this.

DP works away sometimes, we've not had trust issues before and I'm usually happy to wave him off. He was in a hotel for two night midweek this week and nothing out of the ordinary behaviour wise prior to that.

Was going through some of his packing to tidy up/sort laundry - not snooping I have to add, I've never felt he might be doing anything behind my back, but in his wash bag I found a pair of earrings that aren't mine. They are not a gift because I don't have pierced ears.

Since his return he's been affectionate and normal if a bit glued to his phone, but he does a lot of work on it so again not out of the ordinary.

I feel really confused, I've never had a reason not to trust him but I can't shake the sight of those earrings. Returned them to bag but took a pic on my phone. What do I do?

Niki, report to MNHQ if you think the OP is a troll.

Troll-hunting will get you banned. As a new user, you may not know that.

Lots of things can happen in 48 hours. That's life.

A new user just like OP!

Cunt

Mother of cunt

That's all I can say

But you take care OP

I meant it kindly, Moomin.

I wouldn't want someone to be banned just because they didn't know the rules. Rule is that no troll-hunting is allowed. Carry on in that vein and you will be booted out.

If people generally don't believe the OP, then fine. Report and stop bumping the thread. If the OP really is after attention, then maybe stop giving it to her? There is an option to hide threads and no obligation to post on any thread.

Peace and love.

Garmsfresh the 'together' is not OP+Earring Wanker, i think it refers to Earring Wanker + his friend (the one who's sofa he is camping out on).

If there is a new thread, can someone please place the link in here? I am also a little in love with op and don't want to miss her adventures with the fuckwit!

Oh then I apologise.. I hold my hands up I got it wrong sorry all.

Today 01:05 Rescuepuppydaft2

I have just read this whole thread op, you have more class, grace and dignity in your little finger than either your Wanker ex or Miss Russia! Its a shame you can't share his plans for a son of his blood with her! In fact any of his texts since it happened would be eye opening for Miss Russia! No woman with any self respect would want anything to do with a male version of Glenn Close!!! Especially not one who seems only interested in her young fertile womb and treats women like dirt!!!

The only positive about this situation is that he has been so cruel, vile, nasty and pathetic, (in otherwords done such a great job at showing you what an evil, nasty piece of work he is) that when the idiot decides he wants to crawl back to you, you would rather eat broken glass washed down with bleach!

It seems he really actually thought that Miss Russia would welcome him with open arms/ legs. She has given him the cold shoulder and instead of spending the night with Miss Russia he is kipping on his best mates sofa! A mate who seems disgusted by him and will likely kick him out on his arse once he outstays his welcome! Miss Russia was in it for the champagne, the hotel rooms and presents! I bet she thought he owned your flat and that she could move in with him! Instead he turns up homeless at her flat share and she realises he is a loser! I hope that she drops him to the kerb leaving him with a huge credit card bill and living with Mummy or Daddy!

Meanwhile you get to start again, to find a decent loving man, who will treasure you and treat you the way you deserve! There are loads of options for infertility, laser for your endometriosis, ivf, donor eggs, embryo adoption, surrogacy and adoption. You have a lovely best friend and your whole life ahead of you! You have honestly had a lucky escape!!! Good Riddance to bad rubbish! That scumbag wasn't worthy to wipe the shit off your shoes!!!

Please be kind to yourself! Look after you! Take up something new, treat yourself to some new clothes, a nice haircut and a night out with your bf! Cherish yourself!!! And remember, the best revenge is a life well lived!!!

nikki within 12 hours of finding out my ex cheated, I had met the ow found out he had got a different woman pregnant but had told her to get an abortion and that he was also sleeping with another one.
So it's not unusual to uncover more things once the can of worms has been opened.

Today 01:05 Rescuepuppydaft2

I have just read this whole thread op, you have more class, grace and dignity in your little finger than either your Wanker ex or Miss Russia! Its a shame you can't share his plans for a son of his blood with her! In fact any of his texts since it happened would be eye opening for Miss Russia! No woman with any self respect would want anything to do with a male version of Glenn Close!!! Especially not one who seems only interested in her young fertile womb and treats women like dirt!!!

The only positive about this situation is that he has been so cruel, vile, nasty and pathetic, (in otherwords done such a great job at showing you what an evil, nasty piece of work he is) that when the idiot decides he wants to crawl back to you, you would rather eat broken glass washed down with bleach!

It seems he really actually thought that Miss Russia would welcome him with open arms/ legs. She has given him the cold shoulder and instead of spending the night with Miss Russia he is kipping on his best mates sofa! A mate who seems disgusted by him and will likely kick him out on his arse once he outstays his welcome! Miss Russia was in it for the champagne, the hotel rooms and presents! I bet she thought he owned your flat and that she could move in with him! Instead he turns up homeless at her flat share and she realises he is a loser! I hope that she drops him to the kerb leaving him with a huge credit card bill and living with Mummy or Daddy!

Meanwhile you get to start again, to find a decent loving man, who will treasure you and treat you the way you deserve! There are loads of options for infertility, laser for your endometriosis, ivf, donor eggs, embryo adoption, surrogacy and adoption. You have a lovely best friend and your whole life ahead of you! You have honestly had a lucky escape!!! Good Riddance to bad rubbish! That scumbag wasn't worthy to wipe the shit off your shoes!!!

Please be kind to yourself! Look after you! Take up something new, treat yourself to some new clothes, a nice haircut and a night out with your bf! Cherish yourself!!! And remember, the best revenge is a life well lived!!!
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I posted the above on page 26 but I had to share again as it is so much more poignant now!

P.s I have two children born from my tilted womb!!!

Oops sorry for the double post

That's true. My friend caught her DH cheating and they are still together months later. Separate rooms though.

OP. You are truly amazing

De lurking to say I'm so glad the OW isn't interested! What a piece of shit your ex is op!

Mark my words. ..she is now shitting herself that the sun secrecy and chasing is over and shes lumbered with a loser sleeping on his mates sofa.
They will fizzle out.
He will try coming back tail between his legs.
Stay strong you sound amazing.

Best wishes for a better future.

Marilyn, there are only 5 posts until this thread is full, can you start a new one )if you want to) and link it here?

Oh, and YOU ROCK!

Work tomorrow will be awkward

Please let it be that the slime ball wanker knocked on the ow's door and nude under a flasher mac said "Let me in Putinface so that we can start making babies". I would just love to have a picture of the sad tosser's face when it finally dawned on him - in the words of a Roy Orbison - "It's over".

Just read the whole thread and I love he's getting his comeuppance already! You've been amazing OP, he never deserved you to start with.